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am going to tell you how to make her cum like crazy using your mouth, your hands, and finally, the greatest orgasm of all time... making her squirt. Are you ready?
Make her less tense by easing her into it... don't go straight for the pussy... kiss her all over, lick her, touch her, taste her, make her feel like heaven with every touch on every inch of her body. Also, whisper in her ear... breathe in her ear... moan into her ear... tell you what you want to do to her and how much you want her and how much she turns you on... whisper it all into her ear... maybe even lick and suck on her ear or inside it, if you think she'll like it.
When you touch her, don't just grab and be rough. Let your hands caress her... keep your mouth and hands and breath half an inch from her skin and move your mouth or hands over her body slowly... up and down her spine... on her neck and shoulders... on her legs and the insides of her thighs... make her tingle with electricity and keep building the anticipation.
Then and only when she is aching for you to go to her center... only when she cannot take any more breaths on her thighs and hands running down her back and kisses on her nipples...
Then do this:
ORAL SEX (CUNNILINGUS):
In order to make a girl go crazy using your mouth, this is what I recommend:
Remember every girl is different, and might want it done differently depending upon her mood, so you may wish to vary the style, speed, and force with which you perform oral upon her. These are just some general pointers that work for *most* women, not all. And remember, it's all about the WAY you do what you do. Be sexy about it. Have a sense of humour - i.e., don't be too serious unless you get the feeling she likes that all-out serious intensity. Don't be ashamed. Don't hold back. Be into it, be passionate, and above all, be receptive to her body language and what she asks you to do and responds to.
Once you've covered the rest of her body, and you've got her all riled up and ready for something between her legs... start by breathing over her pussy, and her thighs. Kiss her inner thighs softly at first, maybe lick on them and suck on them in different places. Run your tongue along them towards her pussy, but don't touch it. Kiss above her pussy (especially if she's shaved) and lick and tease the area above her clitoris. Make sure your mouth and tongue are really wet.
When you've teased her to the point where she's squirming and moaning a little, or telling you to start licking the pussy itself, then it's time to move your head right between her legs, and position your lips and tongue directly over her clitoris (if she hasn't already pushed your head down there). At first lick the clitoris and surrounding area softly (make sure your mouth is wet) and slowly, not much force, just teasingly, delicately. Kiss it. Kiss it passionately, the way you kiss her mouth. Make out with it as if it were a really delicate woman that you are kissing for the first time. Let yourself go and get into it. Caress it with your lips and tongue. Don't forget to interject kissing and licking her inner thighs and licking her labia as a variation.
Lick her hole, too. Slip your tongue into her hole. If she likes that, slide your tongue in and out of her hole, like it's a cock. Do that forcefully, but don't hurt her. She might like it harder in there. She might like you tongue-fucking her hole and just ramming your face right in there. You should be able to tell from her reaction when you first slide your tongue into the hole. If she likes it, go for it... really give it to her with your tongue. Don't be shy. Get her off. Whatever it takes.
Lick her ass, if you can get to it. For that, licking from behind is the best, when she's on all fours. Lick around her ass, around the rim, and then slide your tongue inside (if you dare!). I find that if the girl keeps herself clean her ass tastes really good. Even if something doesn't taste good, just go with it... do it to make her feel good. After all, you think your cock tastes like candy? Not really.
it too hard, and make sure you don't force it in. Just teasingly, gently, letting her know you love her body and want to pleasure her in every way. One thing girls usually love is when you lick from the bottom of their asshole right up to the top of their clit in one long, luscious lick. You can do that a few times.
If she reacts to a certain thing, repeat it. Now for the serious stuff: When she starts to enjoy it, begin a rhythm of licking her. It's all about the rhythm. That's what will get her towards orgasm. Repetitive, constant motion, over and over again, doing something she likes a lot. Lick her whichever way she likes the best (ASK HER!) or whichever makes her moan the loudest. And REPEAT it. Over and over, in a rhythmic motion. Try and keep it going. Don't stop, don't slow down (unless you think that's what she wants)... you can speed up a bit, but maintaining a rhythm is very important. Make your neck work, put your whole head movement into it. It should be a sweeping, repeating, constant motion, with your tongue and lips either caressing or encircling, swirling and stimulating her clit over and over until she starts to shudder. It can be up and down, side to side, or round in circles. Up and down is a good one... just licking upwards, over and over, is a good one. Licking dow
nwards alone is less common. The circles around the clit thing works for most women. The side to side thing can be great: some girls like their pussies licked HARD (not too many) and the rapid side to side motion of the tongue with a lot of force can be perfect to get them off.
What works best with most women, though, is using lips instead of, or as well as tongue. For any of those motions on the clit (up and down, up, circles, side to side), you can use lips instead of tongue. Lips can be softer and if you use them right and they are nice and moist, they can get her off even better. Using a combination of lips and tongue can also be great. Trying everything is always the a good option with a girl you're not familiar with. The best option is asking her what she likes. Some girls don't know what they like: it's up to you to figure it out.
As she enjoys it more, you can get a little harder. Some girls like it very hard (lots of pressure), and very fast (super fast), but most girls like it softer and more delicately. Kiss it as if its delicate. Lick it as if its delicate, don't press your face in too hard once you're in the rhythmic motion. You should try and tease her clitty to orgasm, not force it to orgasm. TEASE IT. CARESS IT. DON'T PRESS IT (unless that's what she likes). Kiss it the way silk kisses a woman's skin when she wears it... like feathers floating.
Some girls, when they're coming, like a variation. When she starts coming, and starts to throb, DON'T STOP - but some girls like you to make it harder, or often softer, at the point of orgasm, or to suck or nibble on it a little bit. Very few girls like you to just leave it alone. Most of them, though, like for you to JUST KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING until they're done coming. Then, once they've collapsed and are exhausted, either carry on going, starting from scratch (to make them come again), or slide up and kiss them on the lips, letting them taste their love juices from your mouth. Then it's time to either receive oral, make love, or curl up and go to sleep.
You'll know she's coming by the rapid tensing of her body and the sounds of climactic moans, or if you're looking at her clit, you'll be able to see it all engorged and massive and swollen, and then it will suddenly start capitulating and throbbing and pulsating, and that is when she is coming. It cums much like a cock does... it throbs and keeps throbbing until the orgasm is complete.
I hope this works and I hope she loves it. For more methodological detail, just ask about which part, specifically, you need help with.
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FINGERING HER CLITTY � soft and slow
While it may be fun to slide your fingers in and finger inside her pussy, I'll concentrate first of all on playing with her clitty. Most girls, when they masturbate, concentrate on the clitoris, which is actually not inside the pussy at all, it is above the entrance. If you don't know where it is, look it up. Get a diagram.
In case you don't know, when the pubic hair gives way to the beginnings of the pussy slit itself, you are right above the clitoris. It is less than half an inch below that point at the very top of the pussy, and it is often hidden behind folds of pussy meat and protective layers � at the very very top of the pussy, on the outside.
It is between the two pussy lips, but at the top of them, where they meet. You will know when you find it because it sticks out a little from the rest of the pussy, and there is nothing above it but pubic hair (or shaved, sexy girlie skin, if she shaves down there).
Now, the way lots of girls like to be fingered to orgasm is slow, soft, and very very gently. First, make sure it's nice and wet (licking and kissing it is always a great idea � if you want to know how to do that, ask me for oral advice), by using lube or even better � wetting your fingers with your mouth. If she's really wet, you might even want to dip your fingers gently into her hole, and get them wet like that, before placing them over the clitty.
If she's not wet, don't start playing with the clitty before you've touched her and kissed her in other places: kiss her lips, bite and nibble on her neck, suck her earlobes and nipples, kiss her tummy, whisper, moan into and put your tongue in her ear, run your hands up and down her back, kiss her inner thighs, her legs, suck her toes, kiss her ass: whatever it takes to get her wet, whatever she likes. You can talk dirty to her too, and whisper right into her ear � lots of girls find that a big turn-on.
When she's ready, place one or two fingers (your first and middle finger, usually) over her clitty, when it's wet and slippery, and start to gently rub and tease. Rub it slowly from side to side, or up and down. Rub around it, too. Not hard. In fact, you might not want to have too much contact between your fingers and her pussy. Try to be as light and delicate as you can, just tease it and play with it as if it were the delicate petals of a flower.
You can vary the motion, firmness of your touch, and the speed with which you touch her, but at the end of it, you should be turning her on and you should feel it swelling and expanding. If it's getting less wet, spit on your hand or use her pussy juice or more lube and keep it REALLY wet.
Once she's getting really into it, find a regular motion that she likes, and repeat it again and again. Not necessarily harder or faster (unless that works), but perhaps more firmly, more repetitive. Circular motions usually work well. Sucking her nipple or kissing her while you're doing it often helps.
When she's squirming and loving it, just keep doing what you're doing, continue with the motion, and before long, she should start throbbing (you'll feel it pulsating) and she'll gyrate and have a really powerful orgasm. This can take anything from one minute to thirty minutes, but it's usually between five and fifteen. Don't keep going after five minutes if she's not enjoying it at all. If she starts enjoying it less, vary it, because the idea is to BUILD the pressure and the pleasure. It's a very slow, gentle process.
Ask her to tell you what she likes, when she wants it harder or softer, faster, slower, or differently, and when she wants you to keep doing what you are doing.
If it doesn't work, don't worry, it doesn't work on every girl. Try the harder one or the squirting one (internal) and best of all, try licking her pussy to orgasm.
FINGERING HER CLITTY � harder
Some girls like it rough. A lot more than you think. That doesn't mean every girl likes it rough all the time: but a lot of girls that enjoy delicate sex and oral and fingering also like to be a****listically made to cum by forceful fingering or licking or fucking. With these girls, the above may work, and can often lead to more powerful orgasms, but there is a quicker, faster way. That way is fingering her clitoris (same place) much harder, pressing fairly hard down on it with your finger, and rubbing it very very quickly from side to side.
This way, again, make sure it's REALLY WET and she's horny (use spit on your hands or juice from her hole or lube or all), then find the clit with your finger (this works when you're standing up, really well) and start moving your finger from side to side while pressing on it. As she starts to enjoy it, do it harder and faster. You can use one or two fingers for this, usually it doesn't work too well with more than two. After thirty seconds to two minutes, she'll start really enjoying it, and just keep going harder and faster. Make sure it's wet. Press even harder on the clit itself and keep rubbing from side to side, over and over, as fast as you can.
If this hurts at any time (in a way that she doesn't like), or she says she doesn't like it, you should stop, or slow down.
If it works, she'll have a sudden, overwhelming orgasm, where she suddenly goes tense and peaks and cums, quickly, then comes down again. You can keep going and make her cum again. It's not hard. Keep doing it till she gets sore if you like. Some women can orgasm ten or more times like this. My girlfriend and I broke the record when she came over a hundred times this way in less than an hour. So as you can see, this is very very very productive if your girl is into this kind of play and you do it right. Try and keep your fingers right on the clit... that is the important part. If you're rubbing the wrong part, it will have little or no effect. It's the nub, the swollen part, the mini-dick in the place I pointed out to you earlier.
If those two don't work, and she won't tell you how to do it (maybe �cause she doesn't know), you need to try the squirting orgasm. This is the BEST of the all methods and involves going inside. Are you ready? This could change your life and her life�
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MAKING HER SQUIRT
There are many ways to use your fingers to make a girl go crazy, and some of the best are to be found by simple exploration - try different things, different numbers of fingers, different parts of her pussy and ass, and be innovative and inventive. Some of the best fingering comes in conjunction with oral... but there is one, shining act which transcends all sexuality, and gives a woman - any woman - the best orgasm of her LIFE. This is not the kind of knowledge which should be bestowed upon predators or misogynists. You should only know this and use this if you LOVE women.
Some will tell you that this is a myth: it is not a myth. Trust me. You'll be glad you did. You'll also be considered a stud, without ever having to take your cock out of your pants. Not that you care if women label you as a stud, right? Right? ;-)
Here goes:
Start by performing a little oral on her inner thighs, labia and clitty especially, to get her nice and wet. For "little oral" read "lots of oral" if she loves oral or it's going well. The rest of this (except for, perhaps, the very end) can be enhanced by continually sucking and licking the clitoris throughout the duration of the act - oral definitely increases the power and pleasure or the female ejaculating orgasm. I repeat, THE SQUIRTING ORGASM IS MORE LIKELY TO HAPPEN IF YOU FOLLOW ALL THIS ADVICE *WHILE* STILL LICKING HER CLIT!
Now, take the hand that you write with, and take the two fingers closest to your thumb (your pointer/index finger and your middle finger) and make them wet with your mouth, with hers, or with her pussy juice (she should be dripping fucking wet for this to work properly).
MAKE SURE YOUR NAILS ARE TRIMMED AND NOT SHARP. Otherwise she may get an owie in there. So to speak.
Slide those two fingers in, with the fingerprint part of the fingers facing up (nails down), slide them in firmly but slowly, an inch or two or three into her sexy pussy. If she is really tight you make need to start with one, and if there is a lot of wetness but resistance, you may need to tease and taste her pussy some more. Once you get those fingers in, tease her inner walls slowly with the pads of your fingers, and get her even more juicy. When you think that she is ready to have the orgasm of her life, you may begin:
Now you will maneuver your fingers to find her g-spot. Yes, it exists, and yes, every woman has one. Slide your fingers in about 2 inches, UP, and then BACK towards the front of the pussy, towards yourself but up inside her (like you're going up behind her clitty). Her g-spot is actually a patch of her inner walls which is on the FRONT INNER WALL of her pussy, above the hole itself. So, in, up, and back towards the entrance. You should feel, on that wall, a very rough patch of skin � rougher than the rest of her smooth inner pussy. Is it bumpy? Does the skin feel different? If she's really turned on, is it a little squelchy or sponge like? Ooh. You've found it. Congratulations.
By making a beckoning motion with your two fingers (a come hither, bending fingers motion), you should be able to pull the fingerprint/pad part of the tips of your two fingers against that spot. Try it. Pull back against it with your two fingers and press a little. Tease it, stimulate it with your fingers. Make her feel good. She should be squirming and breathing very heavily by now.
As you start to rhythmically tap/press/pull/poke your fingertips against the g-spot, she should start getting wetter. If you're doing it right, and she's comfortable with it, you'll start to hear squelching, sponge-like sounds. The g-spot is like a sponge, it contains a lot of liquid, and feels rough. Keep pressing your fingers against it, over and over, rhythmically, with the same kind of rhythm as if you were sliding your cock in and out of her pussy, only increasing in speed and intensity as you go... you may be able to maintain constant rhythm, and still make her squirt, but you may have to get faster and harder as you go... you should be able to read her signs and tell.
As she starts to get wetter, and enjoy it more, you can start doing it harder. If doing it harder makes her go wild and start thrashing from side to side, the harder you do it. Eventually, if she's one of the girls who likes the rapid, forceful finger-fucking of her G-spot, you can replace the tapping/poking of the g-spot with an outright speed-sliding of those two fingers in and out of her hole. Do it faster and faster, maintain the rhythm, but increase the force. Even when you're slamming them straight in and out of her hole, try and maintain an upward, outward force with the fingertips, so you're still pressing up against that g-spot even as you're slamming her with your fingers with reckless abandon. Slamming her, but UP AGAINST the g-spot... you don't even have to pull your fingers out of the hole.
You can also try rapid, hard-pressing and tapping, two or three taps per second, even four, if you can keep it up. That works with a lot of girls too. You're going to start feeling the burn and the pain in your wrist, but just bear with it and go for it... make her cum like she never has before.
Through all of this, she should be squelching, squirming and OBVIOUSLY loving it. If she's not, you should stop. If she says it hurts (especially if she says it more than once), you might want to stop or at LEAST slow down or not do it so hard. Make sure she's always wet � not dry for any period of time.
Now here's the crucial part. When she gets close to ejaculation, she will say that she needs to pee. SHE DOES NOT NEED TO PEE. It's just a temporary sensation that will pass, but you have to make sure she knows about it beforehand, and you have to make sure she does not stop you, and you do not desist in your slamming. Hold her legs apart with the other hand, if you have to. You can even use your head or knees or whatever to hold her legs open, but try and keep her relatively still (or she might get hurt on your fingers), hold her down/in place, you must KEEP GOING. In fact, when she needs to pee, that's when you should start doing it harder, cause orgasm is around the corner. You're right on the edge.
10-50 seconds after the pee sensation begins, she will start to cum. When she does, DON'T STOP. Just do it harder and harder and harder, pressuring the g-spot upwards all the while. Now she should start to ejaculate. She'll scream, and her pussy will start shooting clear (transparent), odorless liquid all over the place. There could be a lot of it, it might soak you completely and soak the sheets and everything around her, so make sure you're prepared.
There's also the possibility that if she's not been drinking enough water, or there is some other factor involved, she might not actually shoot or spray liquid out. It might leak, or there might be very little liquid at all. If that is the case, it doesn't mean you didn't make her squirt... she may have had the same type of orgasm with very little or no fluid, and it will still likely be the best orgasm of her life.
In fact, I guarantee you, if she's never had one before, the squirting orgasm will be the best orgasm of her life. In my experience, 97% of women are capable of having them, and in certain circumstances, given the right mood and level of arousal, I think it's more like 99.9%. If you want her to ejaculate in great volumes, have her drink lots of water before you do it, and stay well hydrated. Once she's finished squirting, SHE CAN SQUIRT AGAIN. Especially if you didn't do it too hard, and still got her to cum, you can usually start all over, and between one and ten minutes later, she'll be squirting again. Usually, you have to do it harder each time. My record is seven. The girl that squirted seven times in 45 minutes passed out for a night and half a day afterwards (it's physically exhausting and dehydrating) so be careful if you try more than 2 at once.
Most girls pass out after a couple of them. This can make a girl fall in love and at the very least want to fuck your brains out, so use it wisely rather than to your advantage. Don't take advantage of people using this. If you do it wrong, or if she's on her period, she might bleed. That's usually okay, but just make sure you don't hurt her, and you stop if she's screaming with pain, rather than pleasure. You should always have a safe word with your partner, and you should always make sure she knows what you intend to do and that she's fine with it, especially because of the peeing sensation which might throw her off and make her make you stop, or hold herself back.
Incidentally, it is also possible to make her squirt using your cock (if you pound her hard enough, at the right angle, usually from behind in doggy style) but it is unusual, and difficult, and using your fingers is almost always a lot more effective.
Enjoy this, and I hope it works out for you; I hope it works out for HER, even more so. If it does� well, just wait and see. I'm jealous of women because of their capacity to enjoy g-spot orgasms! There's NO male equivalent � it's just absolute ecstasy, nothing less. Remember there are at least fifty ways to make a woman cum (actually lots more) and at least five different types of orgasms so don't limit yourselves to this whether this one works or not.
Let me know if you have any more questions or problems, and good luck!
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PS
Then you can also try lasting longer and fucking her harder, here are some methods:
It doesn't just happen. You can stop before you cum. You can then keep going. It's not out of your control, you just need more practise at controlling it.
You need to learn control. You don't just need to masturbate before you see her, you need to masturbate WITHOUT cumming, taking yourself to the edge of orgasm and then STOPPING, and then starting again, and you need to do it for an hour at a time, and then longer and longer until you can literally CONTROL your own orgasm.
I know it's hard, but you need to get to a stage where you can pound the shit out of her, on the edge of orgasm, without cumming. That's when you're at maximum strength and hardness. Every time the orgasm is approaching, you slow down, or stop, and let it subside, then carry on. Here's some more detailed advice on it:
Doctors will give you pills for this, and everyone will have an idea of how it can get better. I'm not telling you not to listen, but pills and advice from those who haven't experienced such a thing are not really the answer. Having said that, if nothing else works and you're depressed, I guess you could try pills and go see the doctor.
But first, this might work:
When you're alone, and horny, start playing with yourself. You know, however you usually do it, thinking about girls, or sex, or looking at magazines or watching movies, while you're online, whatever.
Then, as you're nearing orgasm, reaching the brink, STOP. Let the feeling go away, and once you know you're not about to cum, start again. Now, this is a task which involves LOTS of self-control, but I know you can do it because I know others who have.
Just be determined - you're gonna make yourself feel good, but RIGHT before you cum, as soon as you feel it coming on, you stop. And as soon as it goes away, you start up again. And you go and go and go until you're almost there - then you STOP. Now do that as many times as you can stand, and after, like, say, fifteen or twenty minutes, then cum. It should feel pretty good.
Next time you masturbate, do it for half an hour. Then forty minutes. After three weeks, I want you doing it for ONE HOUR. Looking at hot magazines or movies will definitely keep you stimulated long enough. Just DON'T CUM. After an hour of playing with yourself without cumming, your orgasm should be spectacular and noticeably better because you held back.
Once you feel like you have that self-control, you can try it with a woman. Of course, it's going to be harder having some sexy girl there naked moaning and her pussy sucking on your cock. But... you can do it.
Every time you're about to cum in her, stop, and relax. Then as soon as the feeling passes, start fucking her again. If she's wondering what's going on, communicate with her, be honest. Tell her you were about to cum because she looks so good or because she feels so good, but that you didn't want to 'cause you wanna fuck her longer.
Once you have the "holding back" thing down, you should be over your problem. Then comes the problem of fucking her good, hard, and long, without cumming. Like, without even REACHING that point so you have to suddenly pause; not reaching orgasm until you want to.
The way to do that, I find, is to count. Yes, count. Each stroke, you just count. Don't concentrate on her sexy body or her pussy, concentrate on pounding your cock in her and counting how many times you do it. Count up to a hundred. You should do about a hundred in a minute if you're fucking her really good. Two a second is a REALLY fast fuck. When you reach a hundred, relax for a few seconds, then start all over again. You can do that for hours if you have the physical durability. And the consistency and brutality of the rhythm will make her cum like crazy.
Let me know how all of this goes. Your orgasms and self-control WILL improve if you listen to what I'm saying and follow it to the letter. You CAN do this. Anyone can. If you want to and you believe in it.
One more thing: if it never gets better, don't worry about it too much. Do you know that from penetration to orgasm the average session of intercourse in the USA lasts for four minutes? THAT'S THE *AVERAGE*. So for every half an hour man, there's a five second man. You know, you're really not that bad, even if you never get any better! But you will. You will.
As for the style of giving it to her, I think that to really be sure of making her cum hard with your cock, you should give it to her from behind.
There is no right or wrong motion for doggy style sex, although hard slamming and pounding with a fast pace is usually the most productive, and (especially in doggy style), grinding her slow in a circular motion can REALLY get her off cause your cock touches places it doesn't usually touch. But it's best used in conjuction with the slow, deep, hard drives, the fast pounding slamming brutalizing fucking, and the soft in and out lovemaking style.
So, try entering her from behind, sliding in and out slowly, then getting harder, then once you're at full strength, pounding her, grabbing her hips, slamming her to orgasm, then when she's cum a few times, changing it up to a circular motion. Then back again. Then again. Variation is hot.
And another thing: the rhythm is usually important. When you're slamming her, try to get a really good rhythm going, a good momentum. That's always good.
Let me know how it goes and don't forget to rate me as an expert at allexperts.com
PPS
am going to tell you how to make her cum like crazy using your mouth, your hands, and finally, the greatest orgasm of all time... making her squirt. Are you ready?
Make her less tense by easing her into it... don't go straight for the pussy... kiss her all over, lick her, touch her, taste her, make her feel like heaven with every touch on every inch of her body. Also, whisper in her ear... breathe in her ear... moan into her ear... tell you what you want to do to her and how much you want her and how much she turns you on... whisper it all into her ear... maybe even lick and suck on her ear or inside it, if you think she'll like it.
When you touch her, don't just grab and be rough. Let your hands caress her... keep your mouth and hands and breath half an inch from her skin and move your mouth or hands over her body slowly... up and down her spine... on her neck and shoulders... on her legs and the insides of her thighs... make her tingle with electricity and keep building the anticipation.
Then and only when she is aching for you to go to her center... only when she cannot take any more breaths on her thighs and hands running down her back and kisses on her nipples...
Then do this:
ORAL SEX (CUNNILINGUS):
In order to make a girl go crazy using your mouth, this is what I recommend:
Remember every girl is different, and might want it done differently depending upon her mood, so you may wish to vary the style, speed, and force with which you perform oral upon her. These are just some general pointers that work for *most* women, not all. And remember, it's all about the WAY you do what you do. Be sexy about it. Have a sense of humour - i.e., don't be too serious unless you get the feeling she likes that all-out serious intensity. Don't be ashamed. Don't hold back. Be into it, be passionate, and above all, be receptive to her body language and what she asks you to do and responds to.
Once you've covered the rest of her body, and you've got her all riled up and ready for something between her legs... start by breathing over her pussy, and her thighs. Kiss her inner thighs softly at first, maybe lick on them and suck on them in different places. Run your tongue along them towards her pussy, but don't touch it. Kiss above her pussy (especially if she's shaved) and lick and tease the area above her clitoris. Make sure your mouth and tongue are really wet.
When you've teased her to the point where she's squirming and moaning a little, or telling you to start licking the pussy itself, then it's time to move your head right between her legs, and position your lips and tongue directly over her clitoris (if she hasn't already pushed your head down there). At first lick the clitoris and surrounding area softly (make sure your mouth is wet) and slowly, not much force, just teasingly, delicately. Kiss it. Kiss it passionately, the way you kiss her mouth. Make out with it as if it were a really delicate woman that you are kissing for the first time. Let yourself go and get into it. Caress it with your lips and tongue. Don't forget to interject kissing and licking her inner thighs and licking her labia as a variation.
Lick her hole, too. Slip your tongue into her hole. If she likes that, slide your tongue in and out of her hole, like it's a cock. Do that forcefully, but don't hurt her. She might like it harder in there. She might like you tongue-fucking her hole and just ramming your face right in there. You should be able to tell from her reaction when you first slide your tongue into the hole. If she likes it, go for it... really give it to her with your tongue. Don't be shy. Get her off. Whatever it takes.
Lick her ass, if you can get to it. For that, licking from behind is the best, when she's on all fours. Lick around her ass, around the rim, and then slide your tongue inside (if you dare!). I find that if the girl keeps herself clean her ass tastes really good. Even if something doesn't taste good, just go with it... do it to make her feel good. After all, you think your cock tastes like candy? Not really.
it too hard, and make sure you don't force it in. Just teasingly, gently, letting her know you love her body and want to pleasure her in every way. One thing girls usually love is when you lick from the bottom of their asshole right up to the top of their clit in one long, luscious lick. You can do that a few times.
If she reacts to a certain thing, repeat it. Now for the serious stuff: When she starts to enjoy it, begin a rhythm of licking her. It's all about the rhythm. That's what will get her towards orgasm. Repetitive, constant motion, over and over again, doing something she likes a lot. Lick her whichever way she likes the best (ASK HER!) or whichever makes her moan the loudest. And REPEAT it. Over and over, in a rhythmic motion. Try and keep it going. Don't stop, don't slow down (unless you think that's what she wants)... you can speed up a bit, but maintaining a rhythm is very important. Make your neck work, put your whole head movement into it. It should be a sweeping, repeating, constant motion, with your tongue and lips either caressing or encircling, swirling and stimulating her clit over and over until she starts to shudder. It can be up and down, side to side, or round in circles. Up and down is a good one... just licking upwards, over and over, is a good one. Licking dow
nwards alone is less common. The circles around the clit thing works for most women. The side to side thing can be great: some girls like their pussies licked HARD (not too many) and the rapid side to side motion of the tongue with a lot of force can be perfect to get them off.
What works best with most women, though, is using lips instead of, or as well as tongue. For any of those motions on the clit (up and down, up, circles, side to side), you can use lips instead of tongue. Lips can be softer and if you use them right and they are nice and moist, they can get her off even better. Using a combination of lips and tongue can also be great. Trying everything is always the a good option with a girl you're not familiar with. The best option is asking her what she likes. Some girls don't know what they like: it's up to you to figure it out.
As she enjoys it more, you can get a little harder. Some girls like it very hard (lots of pressure), and very fast (super fast), but most girls like it softer and more delicately. Kiss it as if its delicate. Lick it as if its delicate, don't press your face in too hard once you're in the rhythmic motion. You should try and tease her clitty to orgasm, not force it to orgasm. TEASE IT. CARESS IT. DON'T PRESS IT (unless that's what she likes). Kiss it the way silk kisses a woman's skin when she wears it... like feathers floating.
Some girls, when they're coming, like a variation. When she starts coming, and starts to throb, DON'T STOP - but some girls like you to make it harder, or often softer, at the point of orgasm, or to suck or nibble on it a little bit. Very few girls like you to just leave it alone. Most of them, though, like for you to JUST KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING until they're done coming. Then, once they've collapsed and are exhausted, either carry on going, starting from scratch (to make them come again), or slide up and kiss them on the lips, letting them taste their love juices from your mouth. Then it's time to either receive oral, make love, or curl up and go to sleep.
You'll know she's coming by the rapid tensing of her body and the sounds of climactic moans, or if you're looking at her clit, you'll be able to see it all engorged and massive and swollen, and then it will suddenly start capitulating and throbbing and pulsating, and that is when she is coming. It cums much like a cock does... it throbs and keeps throbbing until the orgasm is complete.
I hope this works and I hope she loves it. For more methodological detail, just ask about which part, specifically, you need help with.
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FINGERING HER CLITTY � soft and slow
While it may be fun to slide your fingers in and finger inside her pussy, I'll concentrate first of all on playing with her clitty. Most girls, when they masturbate, concentrate on the clitoris, which is actually not inside the pussy at all, it is above the entrance. If you don't know where it is, look it up. Get a diagram.
In case you don't know, when the pubic hair gives way to the beginnings of the pussy slit itself, you are right above the clitoris. It is less than half an inch below that point at the very top of the pussy, and it is often hidden behind folds of pussy meat and protective layers � at the very very top of the pussy, on the outside.
It is between the two pussy lips, but at the top of them, where they meet. You will know when you find it because it sticks out a little from the rest of the pussy, and there is nothing above it but pubic hair (or shaved, sexy girlie skin, if she shaves down there).
Now, the way lots of girls like to be fingered to orgasm is slow, soft, and very very gently. First, make sure it's nice and wet (licking and kissing it is always a great idea � if you want to know how to do that, ask me for oral advice), by using lube or even better � wetting your fingers with your mouth. If she's really wet, you might even want to dip your fingers gently into her hole, and get them wet like that, before placing them over the clitty.
If she's not wet, don't start playing with the clitty before you've touched her and kissed her in other places: kiss her lips, bite and nibble on her neck, suck her earlobes and nipples, kiss her tummy, whisper, moan into and put your tongue in her ear, run your hands up and down her back, kiss her inner thighs, her legs, suck her toes, kiss her ass: whatever it takes to get her wet, whatever she likes. You can talk dirty to her too, and whisper right into her ear � lots of girls find that a big turn-on.
When she's ready, place one or two fingers (your first and middle finger, usually) over her clitty, when it's wet and slippery, and start to gently rub and tease. Rub it slowly from side to side, or up and down. Rub around it, too. Not hard. In fact, you might not want to have too much contact between your fingers and her pussy. Try to be as light and delicate as you can, just tease it and play with it as if it were the delicate petals of a flower.
You can vary the motion, firmness of your touch, and the speed with which you touch her, but at the end of it, you should be turning her on and you should feel it swelling and expanding. If it's getting less wet, spit on your hand or use her pussy juice or more lube and keep it REALLY wet.
Once she's getting really into it, find a regular motion that she likes, and repeat it again and again. Not necessarily harder or faster (unless that works), but perhaps more firmly, more repetitive. Circular motions usually work well. Sucking her nipple or kissing her while you're doing it often helps.
When she's squirming and loving it, just keep doing what you're doing, continue with the motion, and before long, she should start throbbing (you'll feel it pulsating) and she'll gyrate and have a really powerful orgasm. This can take anything from one minute to thirty minutes, but it's usually between five and fifteen. Don't keep going after five minutes if she's not enjoying it at all. If she starts enjoying it less, vary it, because the idea is to BUILD the pressure and the pleasure. It's a very slow, gentle process.
Ask her to tell you what she likes, when she wants it harder or softer, faster, slower, or differently, and when she wants you to keep doing what you are doing.
If it doesn't work, don't worry, it doesn't work on every girl. Try the harder one or the squirting one (internal) and best of all, try licking her pussy to orgasm.
FINGERING HER CLITTY � harder
Some girls like it rough. A lot more than you think. That doesn't mean every girl likes it rough all the time: but a lot of girls that enjoy delicate sex and oral and fingering also like to be a****listically made to cum by forceful fingering or licking or fucking. With these girls, the above may work, and can often lead to more powerful orgasms, but there is a quicker, faster way. That way is fingering her clitoris (same place) much harder, pressing fairly hard down on it with your finger, and rubbing it very very quickly from side to side.
This way, again, make sure it's REALLY WET and she's horny (use spit on your hands or juice from her hole or lube or all), then find the clit with your finger (this works when you're standing up, really well) and start moving your finger from side to side while pressing on it. As she starts to enjoy it, do it harder and faster. You can use one or two fingers for this, usually it doesn't work too well with more than two. After thirty seconds to two minutes, she'll start really enjoying it, and just keep going harder and faster. Make sure it's wet. Press even harder on the clit itself and keep rubbing from side to side, over and over, as fast as you can.
If this hurts at any time (in a way that she doesn't like), or she says she doesn't like it, you should stop, or slow down.
If it works, she'll have a sudden, overwhelming orgasm, where she suddenly goes tense and peaks and cums, quickly, then comes down again. You can keep going and make her cum again. It's not hard. Keep doing it till she gets sore if you like. Some women can orgasm ten or more times like this. My girlfriend and I broke the record when she came over a hundred times this way in less than an hour. So as you can see, this is very very very productive if your girl is into this kind of play and you do it right. Try and keep your fingers right on the clit... that is the important part. If you're rubbing the wrong part, it will have little or no effect. It's the nub, the swollen part, the mini-dick in the place I pointed out to you earlier.
If those two don't work, and she won't tell you how to do it (maybe �cause she doesn't know), you need to try the squirting orgasm. This is the BEST of the all methods and involves going inside. Are you ready? This could change your life and her life�
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MAKING HER SQUIRT
There are many ways to use your fingers to make a girl go crazy, and some of the best are to be found by simple exploration - try different things, different numbers of fingers, different parts of her pussy and ass, and be innovative and inventive. Some of the best fingering comes in conjunction with oral... but there is one, shining act which transcends all sexuality, and gives a woman - any woman - the best orgasm of her LIFE. This is not the kind of knowledge which should be bestowed upon predators or misogynists. You should only know this and use this if you LOVE women.
Some will tell you that this is a myth: it is not a myth. Trust me. You'll be glad you did. You'll also be considered a stud, without ever having to take your cock out of your pants. Not that you care if women label you as a stud, right? Right? ;-)
Here goes:
Start by performing a little oral on her inner thighs, labia and clitty especially, to get her nice and wet. For "little oral" read "lots of oral" if she loves oral or it's going well. The rest of this (except for, perhaps, the very end) can be enhanced by continually sucking and licking the clitoris throughout the duration of the act - oral definitely increases the power and pleasure or the female ejaculating orgasm. I repeat, THE SQUIRTING ORGASM IS MORE LIKELY TO HAPPEN IF YOU FOLLOW ALL THIS ADVICE *WHILE* STILL LICKING HER CLIT!
Now, take the hand that you write with, and take the two fingers closest to your thumb (your pointer/index finger and your middle finger) and make them wet with your mouth, with hers, or with her pussy juice (she should be dripping fucking wet for this to work properly).
MAKE SURE YOUR NAILS ARE TRIMMED AND NOT SHARP. Otherwise she may get an owie in there. So to speak.
Slide those two fingers in, with the fingerprint part of the fingers facing up (nails down), slide them in firmly but slowly, an inch or two or three into her sexy pussy. If she is really tight you make need to start with one, and if there is a lot of wetness but resistance, you may need to tease and taste her pussy some more. Once you get those fingers in, tease her inner walls slowly with the pads of your fingers, and get her even more juicy. When you think that she is ready to have the orgasm of her life, you may begin:
Now you will maneuver your fingers to find her g-spot. Yes, it exists, and yes, every woman has one. Slide your fingers in about 2 inches, UP, and then BACK towards the front of the pussy, towards yourself but up inside her (like you're going up behind her clitty). Her g-spot is actually a patch of her inner walls which is on the FRONT INNER WALL of her pussy, above the hole itself. So, in, up, and back towards the entrance. You should feel, on that wall, a very rough patch of skin � rougher than the rest of her smooth inner pussy. Is it bumpy? Does the skin feel different? If she's really turned on, is it a little squelchy or sponge like? Ooh. You've found it. Congratulations.
By making a beckoning motion with your two fingers (a come hither, bending fingers motion), you should be able to pull the fingerprint/pad part of the tips of your two fingers against that spot. Try it. Pull back against it with your two fingers and press a little. Tease it, stimulate it with your fingers. Make her feel good. She should be squirming and breathing very heavily by now.
As you start to rhythmically tap/press/pull/poke your fingertips against the g-spot, she should start getting wetter. If you're doing it right, and she's comfortable with it, you'll start to hear squelching, sponge-like sounds. The g-spot is like a sponge, it contains a lot of liquid, and feels rough. Keep pressing your fingers against it, over and over, rhythmically, with the same kind of rhythm as if you were sliding your cock in and out of her pussy, only increasing in speed and intensity as you go... you may be able to maintain constant rhythm, and still make her squirt, but you may have to get faster and harder as you go... you should be able to read her signs and tell.
As she starts to get wetter, and enjoy it more, you can start doing it harder. If doing it harder makes her go wild and start thrashing from side to side, the harder you do it. Eventually, if she's one of the girls who likes the rapid, forceful finger-fucking of her G-spot, you can replace the tapping/poking of the g-spot with an outright speed-sliding of those two fingers in and out of her hole. Do it faster and faster, maintain the rhythm, but increase the force. Even when you're slamming them straight in and out of her hole, try and maintain an upward, outward force with the fingertips, so you're still pressing up against that g-spot even as you're slamming her with your fingers with reckless abandon. Slamming her, but UP AGAINST the g-spot... you don't even have to pull your fingers out of the hole.
You can also try rapid, hard-pressing and tapping, two or three taps per second, even four, if you can keep it up. That works with a lot of girls too. You're going to start feeling the burn and the pain in your wrist, but just bear with it and go for it... make her cum like she never has before.
Through all of this, she should be squelching, squirming and OBVIOUSLY loving it. If she's not, you should stop. If she says it hurts (especially if she says it more than once), you might want to stop or at LEAST slow down or not do it so hard. Make sure she's always wet � not dry for any period of time.
Now here's the crucial part. When she gets close to ejaculation, she will say that she needs to pee. SHE DOES NOT NEED TO PEE. It's just a temporary sensation that will pass, but you have to make sure she knows about it beforehand, and you have to make sure she does not stop you, and you do not desist in your slamming. Hold her legs apart with the other hand, if you have to. You can even use your head or knees or whatever to hold her legs open, but try and keep her relatively still (or she might get hurt on your fingers), hold her down/in place, you must KEEP GOING. In fact, when she needs to pee, that's when you should start doing it harder, cause orgasm is around the corner. You're right on the edge.
10-50 seconds after the pee sensation begins, she will start to cum. When she does, DON'T STOP. Just do it harder and harder and harder, pressuring the g-spot upwards all the while. Now she should start to ejaculate. She'll scream, and her pussy will start shooting clear (transparent), odorless liquid all over the place. There could be a lot of it, it might soak you completely and soak the sheets and everything around her, so make sure you're prepared.
There's also the possibility that if she's not been drinking enough water, or there is some other factor involved, she might not actually shoot or spray liquid out. It might leak, or there might be very little liquid at all. If that is the case, it doesn't mean you didn't make her squirt... she may have had the same type of orgasm with very little or no fluid, and it will still likely be the best orgasm of her life.
In fact, I guarantee you, if she's never had one before, the squirting orgasm will be the best orgasm of her life. In my experience, 97% of women are capable of having them, and in certain circumstances, given the right mood and level of arousal, I think it's more like 99.9%. If you want her to ejaculate in great volumes, have her drink lots of water before you do it, and stay well hydrated. Once she's finished squirting, SHE CAN SQUIRT AGAIN. Especially if you didn't do it too hard, and still got her to cum, you can usually start all over, and between one and ten minutes later, she'll be squirting again. Usually, you have to do it harder each time. My record is seven. The girl that squirted seven times in 45 minutes passed out for a night and half a day afterwards (it's physically exhausting and dehydrating) so be careful if you try more than 2 at once.
Most girls pass out after a couple of them. This can make a girl fall in love and at the very least want to fuck your brains out, so use it wisely rather than to your advantage. Don't take advantage of people using this. If you do it wrong, or if she's on her period, she might bleed. That's usually okay, but just make sure you don't hurt her, and you stop if she's screaming with pain, rather than pleasure. You should always have a safe word with your partner, and you should always make sure she knows what you intend to do and that she's fine with it, especially because of the peeing sensation which might throw her off and make her make you stop, or hold herself back.
Incidentally, it is also possible to make her squirt using your cock (if you pound her hard enough, at the right angle, usually from behind in doggy style) but it is unusual, and difficult, and using your fingers is almost always a lot more effective.
Enjoy this, and I hope it works out for you; I hope it works out for HER, even more so. If it does� well, just wait and see. I'm jealous of women because of their capacity to enjoy g-spot orgasms! There's NO male equivalent � it's just absolute ecstasy, nothing less. Remember there are at least fifty ways to make a woman cum (actually lots more) and at least five different types of orgasms so don't limit yourselves to this whether this one works or not.
Let me know if you have any more questions or problems, and good luck!
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Then you can also try lasting longer and fucking her harder, here are some methods:
It doesn't just happen. You can stop before you cum. You can then keep going. It's not out of your control, you just need more practise at controlling it.
You need to learn control. You don't just need to masturbate before you see her, you need to masturbate WITHOUT cumming, taking yourself to the edge of orgasm and then STOPPING, and then starting again, and you need to do it for an hour at a time, and then longer and longer until you can literally CONTROL your own orgasm.
I know it's hard, but you need to get to a stage where you can pound the shit out of her, on the edge of orgasm, without cumming. That's when you're at maximum strength and hardness. Every time the orgasm is approaching, you slow down, or stop, and let it subside, then carry on. Here's some more detailed advice on it:
Doctors will give you pills for this, and everyone will have an idea of how it can get better. I'm not telling you not to listen, but pills and advice from those who haven't experienced such a thing are not really the answer. Having said that, if nothing else works and you're depressed, I guess you could try pills and go see the doctor.
But first, this might work:
When you're alone, and horny, start playing with yourself. You know, however you usually do it, thinking about girls, or sex, or looking at magazines or watching movies, while you're online, whatever.
Then, as you're nearing orgasm, reaching the brink, STOP. Let the feeling go away, and once you know you're not about to cum, start again. Now, this is a task which involves LOTS of self-control, but I know you can do it because I know others who have.
Just be determined - you're gonna make yourself feel good, but RIGHT before you cum, as soon as you feel it coming on, you stop. And as soon as it goes away, you start up again. And you go and go and go until you're almost there - then you STOP. Now do that as many times as you can stand, and after, like, say, fifteen or twenty minutes, then cum. It should feel pretty good.
Next time you masturbate, do it for half an hour. Then forty minutes. After three weeks, I want you doing it for ONE HOUR. Looking at hot magazines or movies will definitely keep you stimulated long enough. Just DON'T CUM. After an hour of playing with yourself without cumming, your orgasm should be spectacular and noticeably better because you held back.
Once you feel like you have that self-control, you can try it with a woman. Of course, it's going to be harder having some sexy girl there naked moaning and her pussy sucking on your cock. But... you can do it.
Every time you're about to cum in her, stop, and relax. Then as soon as the feeling passes, start fucking her again. If she's wondering what's going on, communicate with her, be honest. Tell her you were about to cum because she looks so good or because she feels so good, but that you didn't want to 'cause you wanna fuck her longer.
Once you have the "holding back" thing down, you should be over your problem. Then comes the problem of fucking her good, hard, and long, without cumming. Like, without even REACHING that point so you have to suddenly pause; not reaching orgasm until you want to.
The way to do that, I find, is to count. Yes, count. Each stroke, you just count. Don't concentrate on her sexy body or her pussy, concentrate on pounding your cock in her and counting how many times you do it. Count up to a hundred. You should do about a hundred in a minute if you're fucking her really good. Two a second is a REALLY fast fuck. When you reach a hundred, relax for a few seconds, then start all over again. You can do that for hours if you have the physical durability. And the consistency and brutality of the rhythm will make her cum like crazy.
Let me know how all of this goes. Your orgasms and self-control WILL improve if you listen to what I'm saying and follow it to the letter. You CAN do this. Anyone can. If you want to and you believe in it.
One more thing: if it never gets better, don't worry about it too much. Do you know that from penetration to orgasm the average session of intercourse in the USA lasts for four minutes? THAT'S THE *AVERAGE*. So for every half an hour man, there's a five second man. You know, you're really not that bad, even if you never get any better! But you will. You will.
As for the style of giving it to her, I think that to really be sure of making her cum hard with your cock, you should give it to her from behind.
There is no right or wrong motion for doggy style sex, although hard slamming and pounding with a fast pace is usually the most productive, and (especially in doggy style), grinding her slow in a circular motion can REALLY get her off cause your cock touches places it doesn't usually touch. But it's best used in conjuction with the slow, deep, hard drives, the fast pounding slamming brutalizing fucking, and the soft in and out lovemaking style.
So, try entering her from behind, sliding in and out slowly, then getting harder, then once you're at full strength, pounding her, grabbing her hips, slamming her to orgasm, then when she's cum a few times, changing it up to a circular motion. Then back again. Then again. Variation is hot.
And another thing: the rhythm is usually important. When you're slamming her, try to get a really good rhythm going, a good momentum. That's always good.
Let me know how it goes and don't forget to rate me as an expert at allexperts.com
PPS
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