My fetish rankings
I was asked recently to rank my fetishes based upon my new interests in being submissive and then to provide some reasoning for them. I have tried to help you better understand me. I hope this helps.
1. Submission - obvious as its the ultimate obsession I have. Without Submission, none of the others exist
2. Obedience training - its the most important thing to me in this whole D/s realm. It was when I was acting as a D and it is the same as the s
3. Humiliation - I have expressed this but the unknown and the feeling of vulnerability is a major turn on
4. Verbal humiliation - this is different than 3. It elicits a different feeling. A feeling of being berated or ridiculed. Of standing and taking the beratement. Its a feeling of giving over control of ones dignity in a way to tolerate and that tolerance becomes a turn on
5. Slave - it is a feeling of one's position and a clear indicator to a reader of my place
6. Slut - this one starts to turn the emphasis away from the status but into the physical. To be seen as a physical piece of property and used to satisfy my mistress is what I am striving for with this one
7. Orgasm control - This is being practiced so I can say that its the handing of control of your orgasm to someone else that is very submissive. Knowing that the probable outcome is that they will use this control.
8. Orgasm Denial - it has a different meaning to me. Knowing you are not allowed to orgasm feels different than having it controled. One has hope of self Gratification the other is about self control and discipline to not orgasm
9. Butt plug - ? For those that know me, I shouldn't have to explain. Its become a part of me
10. Spanking - a grown like tied to pussy slapping a little but its different. Spanking my pwn ass is fine but I do see the path to loving this form of disciple in real life with a real life domme. So many possibilities too for the equipment
11. Anal Training - its something that is scary but also needed. Anything to do with the ass is very submissive because it is often dirty
12. Pussy Worship - no better way than to worship your mistress than to pleasure her sexually with an orgasm
13. Pussy slapping - it is a very obedient thing to do and is usually used.in some form of punishment.
14. Ordered to masturbate - there is nothing more submissive than receiving orders and having them around masturbating is very sexy. How to masturbate, when to masturbate and what to use are all sexy decisions
15. Fingering - this stems from 14 but the use of ones own fingers and to physically feel yourself getting wet or getting looser is so hot. Its combined with 14 that is hot
16. Vibrator - well its my favorite way to masturbate ?
17. Dirty talk - this was a must. Its going to be the way that I correspond with my mistress and it spans so many of these fetishs, plus kinky foreplay / role play too
18. Degradation - this one is here because its definitely a growing edge. The term just seems.so deep and powerful. I am curious to see others interpretation of degrading
19. Golden showers - I added it simply because its a form of humiliation but also taboo. I feel people have asked about it as if they are nervous to ask. So adding it that I accept it will maybe allow for others to not be so conservative in conversing.
20. Embarrassed naked female - I found this to be somewhat speaking to how daring I might be. So it adds a little bit of dare / risk to my profile
1. Submission - obvious as its the ultimate obsession I have. Without Submission, none of the others exist
2. Obedience training - its the most important thing to me in this whole D/s realm. It was when I was acting as a D and it is the same as the s
3. Humiliation - I have expressed this but the unknown and the feeling of vulnerability is a major turn on
4. Verbal humiliation - this is different than 3. It elicits a different feeling. A feeling of being berated or ridiculed. Of standing and taking the beratement. Its a feeling of giving over control of ones dignity in a way to tolerate and that tolerance becomes a turn on
5. Slave - it is a feeling of one's position and a clear indicator to a reader of my place
6. Slut - this one starts to turn the emphasis away from the status but into the physical. To be seen as a physical piece of property and used to satisfy my mistress is what I am striving for with this one
7. Orgasm control - This is being practiced so I can say that its the handing of control of your orgasm to someone else that is very submissive. Knowing that the probable outcome is that they will use this control.
8. Orgasm Denial - it has a different meaning to me. Knowing you are not allowed to orgasm feels different than having it controled. One has hope of self Gratification the other is about self control and discipline to not orgasm
9. Butt plug - ? For those that know me, I shouldn't have to explain. Its become a part of me
10. Spanking - a grown like tied to pussy slapping a little but its different. Spanking my pwn ass is fine but I do see the path to loving this form of disciple in real life with a real life domme. So many possibilities too for the equipment
11. Anal Training - its something that is scary but also needed. Anything to do with the ass is very submissive because it is often dirty
12. Pussy Worship - no better way than to worship your mistress than to pleasure her sexually with an orgasm
13. Pussy slapping - it is a very obedient thing to do and is usually used.in some form of punishment.
14. Ordered to masturbate - there is nothing more submissive than receiving orders and having them around masturbating is very sexy. How to masturbate, when to masturbate and what to use are all sexy decisions
15. Fingering - this stems from 14 but the use of ones own fingers and to physically feel yourself getting wet or getting looser is so hot. Its combined with 14 that is hot
16. Vibrator - well its my favorite way to masturbate ?
17. Dirty talk - this was a must. Its going to be the way that I correspond with my mistress and it spans so many of these fetishs, plus kinky foreplay / role play too
18. Degradation - this one is here because its definitely a growing edge. The term just seems.so deep and powerful. I am curious to see others interpretation of degrading
19. Golden showers - I added it simply because its a form of humiliation but also taboo. I feel people have asked about it as if they are nervous to ask. So adding it that I accept it will maybe allow for others to not be so conservative in conversing.
20. Embarrassed naked female - I found this to be somewhat speaking to how daring I might be. So it adds a little bit of dare / risk to my profile
14 days ago
