I'm not looking for a boyfriend here.

I am happy to be friends with you, but I do not plan to date here. I plan to work in Germany in the future. That is my dream. I think that having a long-distance relationship is quite risky and there is no guarantee. How can you have a romantic relationship with someone you do not know well? I do not believe in this kind of relationship. I have a dream to fulfill. I cannot give up my dream for a man. No one can guarantee my life. Self-reliance is the safest thing.

If I give everything to a man, it may leave me with nothing in my life. And he will feel that he has broken my arms and legs. And he can do whatever he wants with me. And I will not go anywhere. Because I have no arms and legs anymore. And I have nowhere to go. Because I have no backup plan for myself. I do not want this kind of relationship. So following my dream is the only way I can guarantee my life.

I would like to emphasize that I am more than happy to be friends with everyone here, as long as you don't make me uncomfortable.

Thank you for reading the long message.