Negativity

Is it just me, or are other long time members finding more and more negativity on XH over the past several months? Things such as negative posts in regards to videos and pics. And then, a certain level of the lack of civility. And it appears jealousy in some ways is at a higher level than usual. Perhaps if you have nothing positive to say, just say nothing at all. Just pondering. Looking for input.

Published by RoosterC74

2 months ago

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RoosterC74 Publisher 1 month ago

Jeff- Your message is very positive and appreciated. You have been a long time friend on XH. Your positive approach and sharing has always been wonderful. You truly remain one of the very best of my best friends on XH.

fiilpinolove 1 month ago

Two things I love to share are smiles and hugs because they are free and heartwarming. Friendships in life and on this site warm my heart and make me feel good. Friends are there for you through the good and bad times with support and encouragement. Thank you my friend, Jeff.

RoosterC74 Publisher 1 month ago

Nicola- I think a positive pat on the back at times would help. Some people work diligently at providing positive feedback, and it seems to me to go mostly unnoticed. Sad to a degree.

Nickyhere 1 month ago

I often think that more gratitude is needed, towards others' efforts here.

RoosterC74 Publisher 2 months ago

Jeff- As always, I totally agree with you. And a big yes to our positive friendship. You remain one of the best in my book. 👍

RoosterC74 Publisher 2 months ago

Timeforfun- I totally agree. Your idea of moving on is well taken. 👍

RoosterC74 Publisher 2 months ago

bigary- I am of the same belief. Thanks. 👍

fiilpinolove 2 months ago

A friendly word or comment goes a long way to making this world a friendlier happier place to live. After all compliments are free and nice to receive. I am lucky because you are my friend, keep smiling, Jeff.

TimeforfunXXX 2 months ago

Agreed. If you don't like something, move on. There's no reason to be snarky. Civility and friendliness contribute to the fun.
Giving a thumbs down...It's free porn, what's not to like?

bigary36 2 months ago

I abide by this "Perhaps if you have nothing positive to say, just say nothing at all"

RoosterC74 Publisher 2 months ago

ririf, flath, panther, SeaS- I would like to thank each of you for your well thought out responses. I do appreciate them. 😉👍

ririfanatic 2 months ago

It should be fun and friendly here. It's what I have found for the most part. Always be kind!

flathead55 2 months ago

new policy of Hammster just sucks,its playing by there rules now and thats sure not for the better 👿 but i agree with the member below,Fortunately, it is still possible to chat with a few friends in pleasant company !

pantheredesneiges 2 months ago

As you may have noticed, it is now impossible to post photos, neither in galleries nor in the "dating" section which has disappeared. In addition, stories are censored and the site pushes users to become "creators" which implies revealing their identity.
That's already a lot of subjects of discontent.
As for the new videos, I find them more and more mediocre and violent, in addition to being "low cost".
Fortunately, it is still possible to chat with a few friends in pleasant company !

SeaStories1983 2 months ago

I concur. . . bad enough the site itself is slipping with its image posting policies and all that. But I have still generally found the chat forum to be a worthwhile thing. . . some excellent friends made here. Be kind, people. . .

Unless invited by a chat partner to be, er, rough. . .

1984dave 2 months ago

Yes there is such alot of negativity on here, and sadly is increasingly common

RoosterC74 Publisher 2 months ago

jrinb- Just seems to be a pattern to me. I am just checking to see if others feel the same way. Thanks for your input.

jrinbendor 2 months ago

I've noticed some of that also. I only comment if it's something positive.