"Forced" Feminisation (Rant)

What is this obsession with "forced feminisation"?? I have never felt forced, never felt the need to be forced, let alone actually HAD to be forced. The same applies to every CD and TV I have know since I was 18 (I'm now 51)... and yet captioned images, memes and erotic fiction seem utterly convinced that this is not only commonplace but almost mandatory!