LOVE yourself
Couple of cool takeaways right off the bat. Instead of trying to hookup and get someone else to make you feel better, learn to focus on your body and your way of feeling. The best sex is of course the result of conversations with another person, and over time, you tell them what feels great and what doesn't feel so good. But before going down that path, learn your body. Learn the rhythms of your body, what times of the year, month, and even day are your brightest. For example, men are always complaining about their morning wood, and then there is the other side of that....that is the best time of the day for a girlfriend to get her needs met. (Hint here for the girls). There is something about the rhythm of a man that after a night of sleep, makes him virile and probably most fertile. (Another hint for the girls). The girls seem to be more fertile and sexually hungry from 10am to about 2 pm. SO, the trick is to find the time that overlaps....if you are interested.
The rhythm of life is called a circadian rhythm. There are biological things going on in both men and women during the day and the month. The monthly cycle is natural and normal. There is nothing dirty about it, it is when the estrogen levels tell the body it is time to drop an egg. Of course, there is always the accompanying cramping and irritability. Learning to recognize that is a big step into learning about how you, a beautiful person, understand yourself. Of course, we try to ignore these things, with our cell phones and our busy lifestyles....and sometimes taking a deep breath moment helps us remember that we aren't always perfect, but we got things under control. Breathing deeply through the nose releases nitric oxide into the blood stream. Yep. All the hype about big dick pills is based on this. Our bodies do this naturally. Why pay something to someone that we can get for free?
So, the hookup culture for the most part is about exploration. You want to experience new things, find the perfect partner to fulfill your natural desire for intimacy. By understanding the way you are made, you can explore these things better. The g-spot is different on different women. Some vaginas are larger and some are smaller. It hurts when you try a big penis, or you want to try cowgirl with a smaller penis. This video, seems to be the best I've come across for those that are learning.
The rhythm of life is called a circadian rhythm. There are biological things going on in both men and women during the day and the month. The monthly cycle is natural and normal. There is nothing dirty about it, it is when the estrogen levels tell the body it is time to drop an egg. Of course, there is always the accompanying cramping and irritability. Learning to recognize that is a big step into learning about how you, a beautiful person, understand yourself. Of course, we try to ignore these things, with our cell phones and our busy lifestyles....and sometimes taking a deep breath moment helps us remember that we aren't always perfect, but we got things under control. Breathing deeply through the nose releases nitric oxide into the blood stream. Yep. All the hype about big dick pills is based on this. Our bodies do this naturally. Why pay something to someone that we can get for free?
So, the hookup culture for the most part is about exploration. You want to experience new things, find the perfect partner to fulfill your natural desire for intimacy. By understanding the way you are made, you can explore these things better. The g-spot is different on different women. Some vaginas are larger and some are smaller. It hurts when you try a big penis, or you want to try cowgirl with a smaller penis. This video, seems to be the best I've come across for those that are learning.
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