To be a good man

In life we are told over and over to avoid the dangerus man . What saddly to few people understand that the guy walking around chest puffed up being verbally violent or abusive is not really a dangerus man . Inside that man is insecure lonely afraid to be real with anyone. That is why he acts out , the reasons for his fear and isecurities are vast could be abuse in his youth could be the woman he loved completly destroyed him.

To be a good man you actually have to be dangerus to be capable and willing to do what has to be done for the sake of others . The Good and Dangerus man is one who restains that side of himself, NOT using it for personal gain nor to intimidate he uses that part of himself in the service of others . He shoves his hands into the filth puts himself in harms way to offer others he deems worthy of his dangerus side a way out or a hand to pull them out of the filth they found themselves in due to circumstances beyiond their control or even because of poor choices


Maybe he is trying to atone for his actions of the past

Maybe I wrote this about myself


Asher Phillips
Published by asher86
1 year ago
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Effinay 9 months ago
Thank you for sharing this perspective....
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grannysfannyfister 10 months ago
Take a look at sigma male (the introvert alpha) and INFJ personality. Either the nicest guy you could ever wish to meet or your worst nightmare - most likely to sacrifice themselves for others or reek havoc on those who cross the line.
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