Do we need approval?

Open relationship is not for everyone. Swinger life, cuckold, for those who have wider mind sets. No one have a perfect life. I have my downs of my life too. But when it comes to sex I can say, I am 99% lucky. Being with someone who has the same interests, Is mind blowing. It's like a mirror, but other side they have a different appearance. Me and my wife was the same. What ever the kink, fetishes I had, she loved it. What ever she had I loved it. Together we searched what we can find together. In the 90s we both collected VHS cassette tapes. We had hundreds. I still have some as a good memory even tho most of them aren't working now. All porn. There were time she would call me when I work, and say, I have a girl for you. Screw the work I immediately come home. And I did return the favour. I showed up with a handsome hunk time to time for her. I watched and enjoyed how she is sucking a his cock and she enjoyed how I fucked the girl she got for me. It was not a life time for all. In fact 90% of our friends who knew what was our sexual life style was, never agreed. They felt absurd. Statement that I am making here is, today we are looking and demanding for others acceptance for who we are. And we are not happy because majority would not agree. We need to stop that. Don't seek acceptance because it will destroy your excitement and your experiences. They don't have to be part of it. It's yours. Enjoy your self. Once we realized this, we both did what we wanted to do and kept everything to our self. And we had one of the best sexual life anyone ever can have. Key to have a open mind in sexuality is not to seek others opinions and acceptance. Those who like will like. Those who dislike will dislike. Respect both. Then they will respect you back and will step aside. You do what you want to do. That's all for it.
Even today, I have many people saying my extreme porn desire is not right. I had a good life. As an old man I would choose to live the remaining years of mine the way I want. I love anal sex. I paid a women for anal sex last week. Same week I paid a trans women for anal sex. Would people bother me because if it? No because I don't try to shove that to others mind looking for an positive opinion so they don't care what I do.
Understand this simple theory. Leave everyone alone so they will leave you alone.