So this is a blog...
I never thought of this as a blog before.
But here goes, the ups and downs of a 60 year old pervert.
Sixty, well I'm not sure I'm going to get used to that. When I was young 60 was ancient, crumbly old men and women in the twilight of their years sitting around waiting to die.
Not me it seems.
I really don't feel that much different, if anything maybe a little more open to new adventures.
Which is where is post comes in.
I was hoping that once the c***dren had 'flown' there were many more sexual adventures that my wife and I could have. I still hope there are but - The Menopause.
My wife is truly suffering with the menopause, HRT helps most things but, as she puts it 'she has lost her mojo'.
I am a very sexual guy. I realised this morning for example that the question what are your hobbies? Is a difficult one for me to answer in 'polite company'. The only thing that truly gives me joy is sex. Yes, I can live without it but life is boring, and virtually meaningless. I think about sex constantly, I am that dirty old man that looks at a women's arse a little to long for it to be polite, I try to curb it but its difficult. My wife is used to me 'window shopping' so to speak, its something I've always done.
When we were young we had many sexual adventures (some are posted here and there will be more stories), she could be almost as naughty as me but her libido slipped slowly down and the menopause has virtually killed it.
I try to be supportive and loving and for the most part I think I am, but sometimes I perhaps 'try it on' to often or to much and she get annoyed. So Xhamster has become my outlet.
Its shallow but I post videos for my entertainment as much as yours, I love to read comments and do love the likes and I will answer most messages even if its just a thank you.
But I am truly frustrated, and am unsure what to do. I have often toyed with going to The Kestrel at Heathrow during the day just to spend some time naked because I love to be naked. I'm thinking about it now, maybe in May if I can get some time off.
I have even contemplated sex with a man. I really don't class myself as any orientation not Bi-Sexual, Pan-Sexual, Heterosexual, Homosexual but just plain Sexual, the closest to it on here is heteroflexible so that's what I list myself under. The funny thing is all my videos seem to be on the Gay side of Xhamster, I was going to bring it up with support/customer relations (whatever) but in the end I thought why bother its all sex and I do get some really nice comments.
In fact I have more than contemplated it. I went to a swinger club while I was a long way away on a job, it was quiet and a BI night so I ended up talking to this young Pan-Sexual guy (someone finally explained pan-sexual to me - such a relief). We spent most of the night chatting and wandering around but in the end he got very drunk and I got bored so I went home unfulfilled.
I'm rambling on I know but I need to say some of these things somewhere and I have no-one in my friends group I can talk about this to.
Do not get me wrong, I love my wife dearly but I am so damn sexually frustrated.
I'm not after a relationship but.....
Damn! that sound so desperate and needy
There seems to be a lot of guys on here offering to suck dicks for no other reason than giving pleasure. I wonder if its actually a thing or some form of trolling or entrapment. Either way I'm damn tempted - they always seem to be miles away though lol.
If you got this far thank you for baring with me and thank you for listening.
Any advice is welcome, drop me a comment or a message if you want to chat.
Thom
x
But here goes, the ups and downs of a 60 year old pervert.
Sixty, well I'm not sure I'm going to get used to that. When I was young 60 was ancient, crumbly old men and women in the twilight of their years sitting around waiting to die.
Not me it seems.
I really don't feel that much different, if anything maybe a little more open to new adventures.
Which is where is post comes in.
I was hoping that once the c***dren had 'flown' there were many more sexual adventures that my wife and I could have. I still hope there are but - The Menopause.
My wife is truly suffering with the menopause, HRT helps most things but, as she puts it 'she has lost her mojo'.
I am a very sexual guy. I realised this morning for example that the question what are your hobbies? Is a difficult one for me to answer in 'polite company'. The only thing that truly gives me joy is sex. Yes, I can live without it but life is boring, and virtually meaningless. I think about sex constantly, I am that dirty old man that looks at a women's arse a little to long for it to be polite, I try to curb it but its difficult. My wife is used to me 'window shopping' so to speak, its something I've always done.
When we were young we had many sexual adventures (some are posted here and there will be more stories), she could be almost as naughty as me but her libido slipped slowly down and the menopause has virtually killed it.
I try to be supportive and loving and for the most part I think I am, but sometimes I perhaps 'try it on' to often or to much and she get annoyed. So Xhamster has become my outlet.
Its shallow but I post videos for my entertainment as much as yours, I love to read comments and do love the likes and I will answer most messages even if its just a thank you.
But I am truly frustrated, and am unsure what to do. I have often toyed with going to The Kestrel at Heathrow during the day just to spend some time naked because I love to be naked. I'm thinking about it now, maybe in May if I can get some time off.
I have even contemplated sex with a man. I really don't class myself as any orientation not Bi-Sexual, Pan-Sexual, Heterosexual, Homosexual but just plain Sexual, the closest to it on here is heteroflexible so that's what I list myself under. The funny thing is all my videos seem to be on the Gay side of Xhamster, I was going to bring it up with support/customer relations (whatever) but in the end I thought why bother its all sex and I do get some really nice comments.
In fact I have more than contemplated it. I went to a swinger club while I was a long way away on a job, it was quiet and a BI night so I ended up talking to this young Pan-Sexual guy (someone finally explained pan-sexual to me - such a relief). We spent most of the night chatting and wandering around but in the end he got very drunk and I got bored so I went home unfulfilled.
I'm rambling on I know but I need to say some of these things somewhere and I have no-one in my friends group I can talk about this to.
Do not get me wrong, I love my wife dearly but I am so damn sexually frustrated.
I'm not after a relationship but.....
Damn! that sound so desperate and needy
There seems to be a lot of guys on here offering to suck dicks for no other reason than giving pleasure. I wonder if its actually a thing or some form of trolling or entrapment. Either way I'm damn tempted - they always seem to be miles away though lol.
If you got this far thank you for baring with me and thank you for listening.
Any advice is welcome, drop me a comment or a message if you want to chat.
Thom
x
1 year ago