What being a bi male means to me
I'm "BiManKarl", an older het-leaning bi male who was lucky enough to experience firsthand quite a bit of group activity back in my 30's and 40's. It was in those threesomes & foursomes where I discovered my bi side and found that I enjoyed male sexuality along with the females I had always adored. It was like a door opened in my mind to some rooms I had no idea were there.
I think that's one thing that makes us bi guys a little different from the wonderful gay guys I've met: talking with them, most of them seemed to always KNOW they were into guys from early on, even if they dated gals and pretended not to like guys. But for bi guys like me, we weren't pretending at all - I loved the gals and obsessed about their curves and their sexual parts and just assumed I was completely straight. So for me, enjoying being sexual with other dudes was something I *discovered*, not something I feel I particularly suppressed.
Sure, like a lot of bi guys, when I first discovered male sexuality I was really into it and thought, "Maybe I might be gay?" So, I hung around some gay friends a lot. They were wonderful guys and happy to talk frankly about their lives, including sex and relationships. I went to some of their clubs, even participated in some all-male activity. But all that taught me was... I'm definitely not gay! I just don't fit into "gay world", not that there's anything wrong with it.
Put it this way: it's still the gals who turn my head. When I'm with another guy, even a good-looking fellow, I think about going golfing together, or playing cards, or watching college football together. But put a red-blooded sexy gal in with us, and ooh la la, let's all play together, "no holes barred" and bring on the "friendly fire"!
There is absolutely no sensation in this world as completely sexual and sensual as feeling another man's cock swell and pulse in orgasm right next to your own, feeling his balls tighten up next to yours, all while sheathed tightly together in a woman's wet vagina, feeling it suddenly get all squishy as the pleasure sauce flows. Just remembering that sensation gets me hard today!
Oh yeah. That makes me a bisexual male - not "part gay", not "part straight", but completely 100% bisexual - and I'm happy to be one. I'm probably a two on the Kinsey Scale (just Google it).
And here's the thing: if you were to bump into me on the streets, you would just think I'm an average ordinary dude. Nothing special at all. And you would be correct!
Which makes you wonder... how many of these ordinary dudes are actually bisexual like me? I mean, I didn't even know it myself until well into adulthood. I think there's a LOT of us - some of us just don't know it yet, and some may know but are afraid to admit it, but I think there are a LOT of guys just like me out there. Which is why I try and do my best to be out about it.
That being said, all that sexual activity is well in my past now, and I'm pretty much just "pornosexual" nowadays. But that's fine - my body and energy levels aren't what they used to be anyway, and nowadays I can enjoy all the amateurs getting busy with each other here on xHamster instead! Besides, I feel like I had enough sex for three lifetimes already, and lucky for me I'm a pretty hardcore voyeur anyway... being bi just gives me that much more to enjoy stroking to. ;-)
I think that's one thing that makes us bi guys a little different from the wonderful gay guys I've met: talking with them, most of them seemed to always KNOW they were into guys from early on, even if they dated gals and pretended not to like guys. But for bi guys like me, we weren't pretending at all - I loved the gals and obsessed about their curves and their sexual parts and just assumed I was completely straight. So for me, enjoying being sexual with other dudes was something I *discovered*, not something I feel I particularly suppressed.
Sure, like a lot of bi guys, when I first discovered male sexuality I was really into it and thought, "Maybe I might be gay?" So, I hung around some gay friends a lot. They were wonderful guys and happy to talk frankly about their lives, including sex and relationships. I went to some of their clubs, even participated in some all-male activity. But all that taught me was... I'm definitely not gay! I just don't fit into "gay world", not that there's anything wrong with it.
Put it this way: it's still the gals who turn my head. When I'm with another guy, even a good-looking fellow, I think about going golfing together, or playing cards, or watching college football together. But put a red-blooded sexy gal in with us, and ooh la la, let's all play together, "no holes barred" and bring on the "friendly fire"!
There is absolutely no sensation in this world as completely sexual and sensual as feeling another man's cock swell and pulse in orgasm right next to your own, feeling his balls tighten up next to yours, all while sheathed tightly together in a woman's wet vagina, feeling it suddenly get all squishy as the pleasure sauce flows. Just remembering that sensation gets me hard today!
Oh yeah. That makes me a bisexual male - not "part gay", not "part straight", but completely 100% bisexual - and I'm happy to be one. I'm probably a two on the Kinsey Scale (just Google it).
And here's the thing: if you were to bump into me on the streets, you would just think I'm an average ordinary dude. Nothing special at all. And you would be correct!
Which makes you wonder... how many of these ordinary dudes are actually bisexual like me? I mean, I didn't even know it myself until well into adulthood. I think there's a LOT of us - some of us just don't know it yet, and some may know but are afraid to admit it, but I think there are a LOT of guys just like me out there. Which is why I try and do my best to be out about it.
That being said, all that sexual activity is well in my past now, and I'm pretty much just "pornosexual" nowadays. But that's fine - my body and energy levels aren't what they used to be anyway, and nowadays I can enjoy all the amateurs getting busy with each other here on xHamster instead! Besides, I feel like I had enough sex for three lifetimes already, and lucky for me I'm a pretty hardcore voyeur anyway... being bi just gives me that much more to enjoy stroking to. ;-)
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