How do I cum hands-free?
The most common questions I get on here (other than the tried and true âwant head?â) are about my ability to cum hands-free, so I decided to do an FAQ of sorts in the interest of not having to answer the same questions over and over again on private message. Without further ado, frequently asked questions about cumming hands-free:
1. How do you cum hands-free?
Basically, I concentrate really hard on something that really turns me on (usually a favorite porn scene) and "flex" my cock until I feel myself getting close. It's mostly mental. There isn't much real physical stimulation to my cock, so I have to imagine physical stimulation and concentrate to the point where I can almost feel it for real, kind of like having a wet dream while awake. If Iâm watching porn, then I focus intensely on what it would feel like if that hot bottom's tight hole were sliding down my thick shaft. Flexing my cock and feeling my skin stretched over the fullness of my erection adds just enough real stimulation to the imagined sensation to bring me closer to orgasm. It takes a while (over half an hour sometimes), but I get there eventually. Sometimes I will start off using my hand and then switch to autopilot when Iâm getting close if I donât have the time or patience to âstart from scratchâ. If Iâm with a cute guy who has a smooth ass, then I can usually cum hands-free from rimming him and/or rubbing my face all over his ass.
2. How and when did you discover you could cum hands free?
Iâm not sure âdiscoverâ is the best word, as I have tried unsuccessfully to do it since I was a teenager. I donât actually remember when I first âachievedâ it, but it was probably in my mid twenties. I remember that when I would edge for a while, my dick would get so hard and full that the feeling in itself was almost enough to push me over the edge, given that I was already close to cumming. I just needed a tiny bit of added stimulation, so I started âflexingâ my cock by squeezing my Kegel muscles (the same ones that contract when cumming), which created enough pressure in my pelvic floor to bring on an orgasm.
3. What does it feel like to cum hands free? Does it feel better than cumming normally?
To be honest, I think no-touch orgasms feel a bit underwhelming. My orgasms feel more intense when something is directly stimulating my dick. You know that feeling after youâve let go of your cock to try and stop yourself from cumming too soon, and you try to hold it back with all your might, but itâs too late and the jizz comes pouring out anyway? Itâs sort of like that (the feeling doesnât suck, but you probably would have gotten more out of it if you had just kept jacking your cock while cumming). The main reason I cum hands-free is to show off/impress people, because a lot of people think it looks hot. Sometimes Iâll do it just for the satisfaction of achieving that feat, but I usually just jack off like everyone else when Iâm getting off on my own time.
4. What advice do you have for people who are trying to cum hands-free?
Iâm no expert, so this is just based on my own experience. Try edging by hand for a while until youâre almost on the brink of cumming, and then use the strategy I described in question 1. After you figure out a technique to push yourself over the edge with no hands, try using your hands less and less in subsequent sessions. Body position can also help. If you watch my first âHands-free cumshotsâ video (see below), youâll see that I cum while doing pull-ups with my legs in a squatting position. That puts a lot of pressure on my pelvic floor and stimulates erogenous areas, although I already have to be close to cumming for that to work. Finally, if youâre a beginner, try going for almost hands-free cumshots, and after youâve mastered that, wean yourself off of using hands. If youâve watched a lot of my videos, you might have noticed that I sometimes cum without stroking, but I still have my thumb pressed against the base of my dick (see my "Almost handsfree cumshots" video below). What Iâm doing is using my thumb to keep my foreskin retracted so that my frenulum (the part where the foreskin connects to the underside of the head) is taut. The frenulum is a stretch receptor and produces erogenous sensations when it tightens, so I get quite a bit of stimulation each time my skin stretches when my cock bounces or contracts. Iâm not sure how well that would work if you are circumcised, but the idea is to find out what sensation stimulates you the most and try to create that sensation with as little touching as possible. The penis is stimulated by various different sensations (squeezing, pressure, friction, fine touch, stretching), but if you always opt for the traditional jackhammer approach, then youâre probably amalgamating all that into one grand sensation. Try experimenting with different sensations (squeezing without moving your hand, pressing your finger into certain areas, lightly running your hand over your dick without squeezing, pulling your skin down toward the base of your shaft to stretch it tight) and see which one of those is most pleasurable. After youâve picked a favorite, try to reach orgasm by doing only that. What you are doing is learning how to cum with less stimulation. Once you can do this, try going totally hands-free, but use your âminimalist techniqueâ of choice in small doses when you need a little boost. Now, donât let all this talk of physical stimulation distract you. As I said earlier, cumming hands-free is largely a mental exercise (for me, at least), but part of the battle is knowing how to create just enough physical stimulation to add palpability to the pleasure you are manufacturing in your mind. If you have sex dreams that make you cum without touching yourself, then you can probably learn to do it while awake.
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1. How do you cum hands-free?
Basically, I concentrate really hard on something that really turns me on (usually a favorite porn scene) and "flex" my cock until I feel myself getting close. It's mostly mental. There isn't much real physical stimulation to my cock, so I have to imagine physical stimulation and concentrate to the point where I can almost feel it for real, kind of like having a wet dream while awake. If Iâm watching porn, then I focus intensely on what it would feel like if that hot bottom's tight hole were sliding down my thick shaft. Flexing my cock and feeling my skin stretched over the fullness of my erection adds just enough real stimulation to the imagined sensation to bring me closer to orgasm. It takes a while (over half an hour sometimes), but I get there eventually. Sometimes I will start off using my hand and then switch to autopilot when Iâm getting close if I donât have the time or patience to âstart from scratchâ. If Iâm with a cute guy who has a smooth ass, then I can usually cum hands-free from rimming him and/or rubbing my face all over his ass.
2. How and when did you discover you could cum hands free?
Iâm not sure âdiscoverâ is the best word, as I have tried unsuccessfully to do it since I was a teenager. I donât actually remember when I first âachievedâ it, but it was probably in my mid twenties. I remember that when I would edge for a while, my dick would get so hard and full that the feeling in itself was almost enough to push me over the edge, given that I was already close to cumming. I just needed a tiny bit of added stimulation, so I started âflexingâ my cock by squeezing my Kegel muscles (the same ones that contract when cumming), which created enough pressure in my pelvic floor to bring on an orgasm.
3. What does it feel like to cum hands free? Does it feel better than cumming normally?
To be honest, I think no-touch orgasms feel a bit underwhelming. My orgasms feel more intense when something is directly stimulating my dick. You know that feeling after youâve let go of your cock to try and stop yourself from cumming too soon, and you try to hold it back with all your might, but itâs too late and the jizz comes pouring out anyway? Itâs sort of like that (the feeling doesnât suck, but you probably would have gotten more out of it if you had just kept jacking your cock while cumming). The main reason I cum hands-free is to show off/impress people, because a lot of people think it looks hot. Sometimes Iâll do it just for the satisfaction of achieving that feat, but I usually just jack off like everyone else when Iâm getting off on my own time.
4. What advice do you have for people who are trying to cum hands-free?
Iâm no expert, so this is just based on my own experience. Try edging by hand for a while until youâre almost on the brink of cumming, and then use the strategy I described in question 1. After you figure out a technique to push yourself over the edge with no hands, try using your hands less and less in subsequent sessions. Body position can also help. If you watch my first âHands-free cumshotsâ video (see below), youâll see that I cum while doing pull-ups with my legs in a squatting position. That puts a lot of pressure on my pelvic floor and stimulates erogenous areas, although I already have to be close to cumming for that to work. Finally, if youâre a beginner, try going for almost hands-free cumshots, and after youâve mastered that, wean yourself off of using hands. If youâve watched a lot of my videos, you might have noticed that I sometimes cum without stroking, but I still have my thumb pressed against the base of my dick (see my "Almost handsfree cumshots" video below). What Iâm doing is using my thumb to keep my foreskin retracted so that my frenulum (the part where the foreskin connects to the underside of the head) is taut. The frenulum is a stretch receptor and produces erogenous sensations when it tightens, so I get quite a bit of stimulation each time my skin stretches when my cock bounces or contracts. Iâm not sure how well that would work if you are circumcised, but the idea is to find out what sensation stimulates you the most and try to create that sensation with as little touching as possible. The penis is stimulated by various different sensations (squeezing, pressure, friction, fine touch, stretching), but if you always opt for the traditional jackhammer approach, then youâre probably amalgamating all that into one grand sensation. Try experimenting with different sensations (squeezing without moving your hand, pressing your finger into certain areas, lightly running your hand over your dick without squeezing, pulling your skin down toward the base of your shaft to stretch it tight) and see which one of those is most pleasurable. After youâve picked a favorite, try to reach orgasm by doing only that. What you are doing is learning how to cum with less stimulation. Once you can do this, try going totally hands-free, but use your âminimalist techniqueâ of choice in small doses when you need a little boost. Now, donât let all this talk of physical stimulation distract you. As I said earlier, cumming hands-free is largely a mental exercise (for me, at least), but part of the battle is knowing how to create just enough physical stimulation to add palpability to the pleasure you are manufacturing in your mind. If you have sex dreams that make you cum without touching yourself, then you can probably learn to do it while awake.
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