"COMING OUT"

I thought i would write a blurb about wether or not people should "come out". Believe it or not, most wait until their later years to "come out" because their k**s are all grown & out of the house, they've become a widower, they've retired, or they finally feel safe & secure enough to do so. There are ALWAYS tonnes of factors to consider before deciding wether or not to"come out"....the BIGGEST factor is what effect(if any) it will have on your day to day life. For some of us, we've already crossed that thresh-hold a long time ago & the reasons why vary as much as the weather.
I decided to embrace my femininity when i was in my early 20's, as i knew that if i tried to suppress the urge that it would cause me a great deal of inner turmoil. To this day, i STILL have strong desires to dress more then i currently do. Having my own space is the biggest hurdle for me at present but i am currently looking for a bigger place to live so that i may have my own room where i can dress to my hearts content! I can dress in front of my roommate as it isn't an issue but sometimes i like my privacy as well. Being "Lola" makes me feel at ease, makes me feel sexy & desireable, makes me feel relaxed like i'm truly who i am supposed to be...if that makes any sense at all?
I've always shared my desire to dress with any partners so that it doesn't come as a shock & so that they know that it is a package deal as well...you can't have one without the other, as i am NOT about to change my personality for others anymore! I tried that in my 20's & i always wound up frustrated because no matter how hard i tried, i discovered that you can't please some people no matter how much you try! I decided to be myself in it's entirety & if the have an issue with it then they can grab a tissue & deal with it or walk away! You have to be who you are no matter what that entails!