New video status

What the fuck is xham doing now! Apparently I'm not capable of choosing who can and can't see my videos! I assume this is to stop assholes uploading dodgy videos, and letting other perverts see them with the password...If this is the case, surely, all they have to do is keep a group of 'friends' or 'ring' in a separate profile! Also aren't all videos vetted? I've had videos rejected for some stupidly banile reasons! This site is becoming a pain in the ass...and not in a good way!!!!!! Any thoughts?