Kinky in love

You need to learn who you are, to truly know how to love someone else.
loving yourself is important, but not a must.

Can you love someone with all you heart but still want to fuck with different people?
yes.

Will you do it?
Will you still explore the dimensions of you sexuality, fetishes kinks and fantasies?

Haven't you have enough?
Probably not.

So why love?
why trade your libido's rubik cube for a life (or a few years) of security in companionship?

I blame society. But mainly myself.
Fear is talking. Fear,anxiety and my endless effort to try to be like you.

I want to be like you just to show you i can do it better.

So how do you decide you love someone enough?
i think its when you know yourself well enough, to stop wanting to be someone else (it comes with age i guess).

when you stop being someone else, you know that the one that is with you will take you with all your exploding
sex drive and will make it her goal to reach it. she/he will take it further than you even dreamed.

And i promise, you will find those fantasies where just the tip of the iceberg.

Only in the moment you share your fetish with a loving, excepting (and consenting) loved one,
you find out how deep that kink of yours really go.

Good luck.