Pros and Cons, Ups and Downs
I've been chatting with someone who wants to know the pros and cons of having a very large penis. Basically, she wants to know if it there is a down side to being well endowed. Well, it ain't all peaches and cream. I'll give you the cons side first.
Yeah, I'm happy with what I have, but there have been times in my life I wish I were more "normal". I didn't realize I was big until my first shower after junior high gym class. Loud, chatty classmates suddenly grew silent once I removed my jock strap and headed to the shower area. Guys that were walking around nude in the locker room, suddenly were grabbing towels and covering themselves. Everybody moved away from me while I was dressing. The looks they gave me were not admiring, more like I was some kind of sideshow freak. Of course, I look at it all differently now when I go to the health club. Seeing guys watch as it hangs and swings leaving the shower is confirmation that I have something special that most of them wish they had, but when I was young it was pretty traumatic.
The thing I learned at an early age is that having a big dick is not that much different than being a woman with big tits. You're going to get stared at, especially if you wear the wrong clothes. There is a professional standard of dress I have for work which is to conceal everything. There needs to be plenty of room in the pants, but without looking too baggy. I have a tailor who adjusts my trousers so that there is a little more space on the left side pant leg so there's hanging room. I can't wear briefs, but the boxers I have hold things in place fairly well. (For my hung brethren check out endowedunderwear.com)
Every early morning before work I have to masturbate before showering, so I have no desire. I can't risk having a random erection in my professional life. There is no place to hide.
I like to swim, but have to be careful about getting out of the pool as swimming suits tend to cling. I have to make sure the drawstring is cinched tightly and that the inner lining is tight enough not to let anything fall out.
Condom sizing is problematic. Finding one that doesn't take away sensation or squeeze too much is a pain. There is only one make of condom that I can comfortably use: Trojan Magnum XLs. I have had standard Magnums break on me on several occasions, which has led to some trying experiences. A lot of the information you encounter claims that condoms donāt break unless you are doing something wrong, but that has certainly not been my experience. I have broken so many condoms that I donāt even try using any other type than XLs, which incidentally are double the price.
Sitting on the toilet can be awkward and unhygienic. The head of my penis can accidentally go into the toilet water, if I'm not paying attention. I don't sit on public toilets for that reason.
Sexually there are many complications. I've had several blowjob disasters that have resulted in choking and vomiting on my cock. Even for women who are fellatio experts, the girth of my shaft makes it difficult to go deep in the mouth. I've had many women attempt it, but none have been able to make me cum from oral sex.
Handjobs are better, but two hands are necessary. A little lube or saliva helps, also.
I have to be very careful when having sexual intercourse. It's disheartening to be as gentle and patient, and wind up causing her to bleed. I've been in the middle of sex and have my partner immediately quit because I was causing her pain by hitting her cervix. I've had others quit before we even started because of my size. Anal sex is my favorite, but most won't try it with me. I've found that the more experienced the woman is sexually, the better my chances.
To get fully hard takes a while. Viagra helps, but tends to add even more girth because of the blood flow.
To save everybody time, trouble, and embarrassment; I feel obligated to issue an early warning if a relationship looks like it's leading to sex.
Also, keep in mind that women talk. I don't know if this is a con or not, but when you're endowed she's going to tell her friends. I don't necessarily like someone blabbing that, but on the other hand it is flattering.
Pros
Women tend to become enamored with the size; it turns āgood girlsā into bad girls real quick.
I always hear the same thing when they first see it, "Oh, my God!" There is genuine excitement which in turn makes me excited.
It increases the amount of confidence and security as a man.
There are more sexual position options when you're well hung. The entire playbook is open. Vaginal orgasms occur often.
I have the ability to satisfy women with large vaginas. Size queens love me. Sluts, too. Virgins not so much.
If I go out wearing revealing jeans, I will likely get laid. Not bragging, just the truth. I'm an average looking guy with one physical exception.
So in a nutshell, yes, there is a down side to having a large penis. When I was younger I wished it were smaller, but as an adult I learned that I have a gift.
Yeah, I'm happy with what I have, but there have been times in my life I wish I were more "normal". I didn't realize I was big until my first shower after junior high gym class. Loud, chatty classmates suddenly grew silent once I removed my jock strap and headed to the shower area. Guys that were walking around nude in the locker room, suddenly were grabbing towels and covering themselves. Everybody moved away from me while I was dressing. The looks they gave me were not admiring, more like I was some kind of sideshow freak. Of course, I look at it all differently now when I go to the health club. Seeing guys watch as it hangs and swings leaving the shower is confirmation that I have something special that most of them wish they had, but when I was young it was pretty traumatic.
The thing I learned at an early age is that having a big dick is not that much different than being a woman with big tits. You're going to get stared at, especially if you wear the wrong clothes. There is a professional standard of dress I have for work which is to conceal everything. There needs to be plenty of room in the pants, but without looking too baggy. I have a tailor who adjusts my trousers so that there is a little more space on the left side pant leg so there's hanging room. I can't wear briefs, but the boxers I have hold things in place fairly well. (For my hung brethren check out endowedunderwear.com)
Every early morning before work I have to masturbate before showering, so I have no desire. I can't risk having a random erection in my professional life. There is no place to hide.
I like to swim, but have to be careful about getting out of the pool as swimming suits tend to cling. I have to make sure the drawstring is cinched tightly and that the inner lining is tight enough not to let anything fall out.
Condom sizing is problematic. Finding one that doesn't take away sensation or squeeze too much is a pain. There is only one make of condom that I can comfortably use: Trojan Magnum XLs. I have had standard Magnums break on me on several occasions, which has led to some trying experiences. A lot of the information you encounter claims that condoms donāt break unless you are doing something wrong, but that has certainly not been my experience. I have broken so many condoms that I donāt even try using any other type than XLs, which incidentally are double the price.
Sitting on the toilet can be awkward and unhygienic. The head of my penis can accidentally go into the toilet water, if I'm not paying attention. I don't sit on public toilets for that reason.
Sexually there are many complications. I've had several blowjob disasters that have resulted in choking and vomiting on my cock. Even for women who are fellatio experts, the girth of my shaft makes it difficult to go deep in the mouth. I've had many women attempt it, but none have been able to make me cum from oral sex.
Handjobs are better, but two hands are necessary. A little lube or saliva helps, also.
I have to be very careful when having sexual intercourse. It's disheartening to be as gentle and patient, and wind up causing her to bleed. I've been in the middle of sex and have my partner immediately quit because I was causing her pain by hitting her cervix. I've had others quit before we even started because of my size. Anal sex is my favorite, but most won't try it with me. I've found that the more experienced the woman is sexually, the better my chances.
To get fully hard takes a while. Viagra helps, but tends to add even more girth because of the blood flow.
To save everybody time, trouble, and embarrassment; I feel obligated to issue an early warning if a relationship looks like it's leading to sex.
Also, keep in mind that women talk. I don't know if this is a con or not, but when you're endowed she's going to tell her friends. I don't necessarily like someone blabbing that, but on the other hand it is flattering.
Pros
Women tend to become enamored with the size; it turns āgood girlsā into bad girls real quick.
I always hear the same thing when they first see it, "Oh, my God!" There is genuine excitement which in turn makes me excited.
It increases the amount of confidence and security as a man.
There are more sexual position options when you're well hung. The entire playbook is open. Vaginal orgasms occur often.
I have the ability to satisfy women with large vaginas. Size queens love me. Sluts, too. Virgins not so much.
If I go out wearing revealing jeans, I will likely get laid. Not bragging, just the truth. I'm an average looking guy with one physical exception.
So in a nutshell, yes, there is a down side to having a large penis. When I was younger I wished it were smaller, but as an adult I learned that I have a gift.
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