Masturbation survey

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There's no need for secrecy concerning my answers. I even think people should talk more about their masturbation. It's actually liberating, because everybody, male or female, in one or another way, masturbates in spite of all sorts of taboos. I'm convinced that masturbating is a vital necessity for the mind and the body. Let us also remember that making love with another person always involves some form of masturbation. I'm open to discussing the subject.

Ultimately I discovered about myself how much I love to see people masturbate, mostly ladies for sure (girls and women of any age, young or old), but also ladyboys, and occasionally some plain man... Within a family, in case of doubt, the best is to keep sexually some wise distance. But then, thinking it over and over again, what harm is done to just masturbate together, or watch each other indulging ? The real basics of sex is first of all knowing one's own body, and in spite of all sorts of taboos, masturbating is always extremely healthy, and believe me or not, being able to just do it openly in front of friends, or even open minded family, is really liberating for the mind.

Meanwhile people would learn something intimately essential about each other ! Why hide such a nice, amusing, pleasurable activity, as nearly everyone does and loves it in one or another form. Sure this implies a real confidence in each other and some form of mental maturity...

No offense meant to anyone : just meditating, ready to discuss the subject, and maybe have some sessions with interested people.

Here are the questions and my answers:

1. When did you start masturbating? Very early around four.
2. How did you discover it? Without knowing while sleeping on my belly. Only years later did I masturbate on purpose. Also, when I was between about ten and sixteen, I happened to sometimes wake up because of a spontaneous orgasm while asleep, but not always dreaming, although wet from my 12th year on... By the way, my wife told me that during nearly whole her life she had occasional wet dreams, meaning she was aroused in her dream and woke up because of an orgasm. On some mornings, while still in bed, she told me of what happened, and was clearly a bit puzzeled about those wet dreams, which seem to have been at the same time enjoyable and harassing. Let it be clear that when we had sex together, she nearly always had a real orgasm in one or another way.
3. How did you do it when you first started, and is it the same way you do it now? Actually I didn't do anything while on my belly, probably just little rubbing movements without purpose. I just had an unexpected orgasm. When I was a young adult I sometimes masturbated as I did around 4, 5, 6 years, but on purpose this time, on a pillow for instance or a deflating ball.
4. How often do you masturbate? From 4 to 6 times a week, which is more than when I was young.
5. How long do you usually masturbate for? Around 10 minutes. Sometimes in a few minutes. Sometimes slowly for half an hour or nearly an hour while watching porn as today (the day writing this post) for instance.
6. When did you last masturbate? Today (the day writing this post).
7. When do you usually masturbate? These last years during the evening while watching porn. When my wife was still alive, it could be any time, mostly in bed, and sometimes in the morning because of some urge.
8. Where do you usually masturbate? These last years often on a chair in front of my computer screen, and sometimes in bed. When my wife was still alive, mostly in bed. When I was younger also in bath and shower, but while becoming older this didn't work out anymore, and no idea why.
9. Which hand do you masturbate with? Mostly the left hand, often also the right one, mainly when using the left one to push and rub the zone beneath the balls while wanking with the right hand.
10a. Men, what do you cum on? (chest, belly, hand etc.) Hand, pants, sexdoll, handkerchief, bra, etc.
Ladies, knickers on or off?
10b. Have you ever cum in your pants/knickers deliberately (i.e. you did it)?
Yes, occasionally, at the border school and when I was in the army. Also in bed. It feels good, even now at my age. I like to vary the way I masturbate.
10c. Have you ever cum in your pants because someone else did it (i.e. been jacked off by a partner in your clothes)? Sadly no, but I did finger my wife in her pants sometimes. I really love to do that: very nice feeling and rewarding in different ways !
11. Men, have you ever tasted your own cum? No.
Ladies, have you ever tasted yourself?
12. Men, have you ever cum in your own mouth, either by autofellatio or by a shoulder stand? No. Still, I did sometimes masturbate while on my shoulders in a yoga position, but never tried or wanted to taste my cum.
Ladies, clitoris, or penetration or both?
13. Do you edge, aka "play stop and go" - masturbating to the edge of orgasm)? At least I did try.
14. How long did your longest masturbating session take? Around 30 minutes.
15. What was your most memorable masturbation session? Not one. Rather, these last years often not predictable extremely intense orgasms irradiating nearly in the whole body just a little before ejaculating. By the way: the older one gets, the more intense some orgasms can be.
16. Have you ever had multiple orgasms while masturbating? Only a few times.
17. Do you use lubrication? No.
18. Have you ever been caught masturbating? Yes.
19. If yes, by whom? Probably secretely by my stepmother spying secretely on me (she was not healthy in the head). Later when I was married, by my wife, and she seemed jealous to see me having some solo pleasure (that old stupid taboo), but on some occasions, she did enjoy it and joined in. She knew I loved watching her fingering herself, and now and then she did so for the pleasure of both of us. Otherwise we usually just had plain and satisfying intercourse.
20. Have you ever masturbated with a person of the opposite sex? Yes, my wife. By the way, I'm still willing to do that with any friendly and sincere lady, whatever her age. I really mean it.
21. Have you ever masturbated with a person of the same sex? Yes, very occasionally with a friend at the boarding school, and later also occasionally when I was about 20 years old with another friend.
22. Do you use anal play while masturbating? Never. Anal play is not at all a pleasure to me.
23. Have you ever had an anally-related orgasm? Never.
24. What are the most times you masturbated on a single day? 3 times (happened only a very few times).
25. What's the most unusual place you have masturbated? When I did my military service during manoeuvres while sitting duck in the field. I needed it badly. When I was young I sometimes had spontaneous unexpected erections while being in one or another odd place, like a train for instance, or in a classroom. On those occasions I just tried to hide the bulge and waited for the lizard to calm down. Those were rather embarrassing moments.

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July 2021
The answers of a nice 51 years old lady

1. When did you start masturbating? When I was eighteen.
2. How did you discover it? Accidentally with a brush, you know the story:)
3. How did you do it when you first started, and is it the same way you do it now? No, not the same. Now it takes preparations (towels, more towels, a proper video to watch) and some foreplay like touching the neck or breast.
4. How often do you masturbate? 1 maybe 2 times a month.
5. How long do you usually masturbate for? Never intentionally counted, but it's never a short session. I'd say it's 1-3hours
6. When did you last masturbate? About 2 weeks ago, when my boyfriend was visiting his parents.
7. When do you usually masturbate? Always evenings
8. Where do you usually masturbate? Bed is the only option for a squirter.
9. Which hand do you masturbate with? Both:)
10. Men, what do you cum on? (chest, belly, hand etc.)
Ladies, knickers on or off? Always fully naked.
11. Men, have you ever tasted your own cum?
Ladies, have you ever tasted yourself? Sure!
12. Men, have you ever cum in your own mouth, either by autofellatio or by a shoulder stand?
Ladies, clitoris, or penetration or both? Mostly clitoris. Penetration is only interesting with a living person.
13. Do you edge, aka "play stop and go" - masturbating to the edge of orgasm)? When I have the mood - yes!
14. How long did your longest masturbating session take? 2 hours. Several orgasms watching really inspiring videos.
15. What was your most memorable masturbation session? The first one and the longest one.
16. Have you ever had multiple orgasms while masturbating? Sure, many times.
17. Do you use lubrication? No
18. Have you ever been caught masturbating? No
19. If yes, by whom? -
20. Have you ever masturbated with a person of the opposite sex? Yes, tried several times, didn't really enjoy it. I masturbate when there's no one to make love with. If there IS someone - why should I masturbate if we just can have sex? Mutual masturbation is nice! But sitting in front of each other - no.
21. Have you ever masturbated with a person of the same sex? Yes and the story is same here
22. Do you use anal play while masturbating? Solo - no.
23. Have you ever had an anally-related orgasm? No, never.
24. What are the most times you masturbated on a single day? 2 times.
25. What's the most unusual place you have masturbated? Bath. Decided to try just as an experiment. Didn't enjoy that, wasn't enough comfort, and was kinda afraid to spill the water out of the bath. Hardly reached that orgasm. Never ever tried after that.

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August 2021
The answers of a 55 years old man

1. When did you start masturbating? about 12 years
2. How did you discover it? By chance, felt good
3. How did you do it when you first started, and is it the same way you do it now? Started with frotting my penis between my legs
4. How often do you masturbate? nearly daily
5. How long do you usually masturbate for? average 10 minutes
6. When did you last masturbate? just now
7. When do you usually masturbate? mostly in the evening
8. Where do you usually masturbate? mostly in the bedroom
9. Have you ever cum in your pants/knickers deliberately (i.e. you did it)? Not really, mostly precum
10. Have you ever cum in your pants because someone else did it (i.e. been jacked off by a partner in your clothes)? yes, at the movies
11. Men, have you ever tasted your own cum? yes
Ladies, have you ever tasted yourself? n/a
12. Men, have you ever cum in your own mouth, either by autofellatio or by a shoulder stand? yes
Ladies, clitoris, or penetration or both? n/a
13. Do you edge, aka "play stop and go" - masturbating to the edge of orgasm)? yes
14. How long did your longest masturbating session take? probably 2 à 3 hours
15. What was your most memorable masturbation session? fist time masturbating in the erotic cinema with lots of people watching / passing by
16. Have you ever spontaneously cum in your pants (i.e. so incredibly turned on that you just nut. Wet dreams do not count - you must be awake!)? nor really
17. If so, why?
18. Have you ever been caught masturbating? yes
19. If yes, by whom? by parents
20. Have you ever masturbated with a person of the opposite sex? yes
21. Have you ever masturbated with a person of the same sex? yes
22. Do you use anal play while masturbating? sometimes
23. Have you ever had an anally-related orgasm? yes
24. What are the most times you masturbated on a single day? about 5 times
25. What's the most unusual place you have masturbated? at my office

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4 march 2022, Laurie, 27 years old girl

1. When did you start masturbating?
ANS: 8
2. How did you discover it?
ANS: Some boys showed me some porn of a girl doing it
3. How did you do it when you first started, and is it the same way you do it now?
ANS: I just rubbed my clit with my fingers like I saw the girl doing. Now I have multiple ways to do it also with vibrators and other sex toys
4. How often do you masturbate?
ANS: I have sexual encounters often but that doesn't completely stop my need to masturbate in between, sometimes multiple times a day.
5. How long do you usually masturbate for?
ANS: 5-20 minutes, sometimes longer
6. When did you last masturbate?
ANS: This morning
7. When do you usually masturbate?
ANS: Mornings and evenings and sometimes at work during break in my car or in my dads office when he is gone
8. Where do you usually masturbate?
ANS: In my bedroom, Jacuzzi, Steam Room, Sauna or Theater Room mostly
Fri, Mar 04 03:18 AM
9. Which hand do you masturbate with?
ANS: I am right handed
10b. Have you ever cum in your panties deliberately (i.e. you did it)?
ANS: No
10c. Have you ever cum in your panties because someone else did it?
ANS: Yes, when I was in my teens and boys would dry hump me with clothes on
11. Ladies, have you ever tasted yourself?
ANS: Yes, more times than I can count
12. Ladies, clitoris, or penetration or both?
ANS: I do both simultaneously with a penis dildo in me while I use my fingers or a vibrator on my clit
13. Do you edge, aka "play stop and go" - masturbating to the edge of orgasm)?
ANS: Yes, all the time, especially when I have porn on. I love it!
14. How long did your longest masturbating session take?
ANS: Over an hour frequently
15. What was your most memorable masturbation session?
ANS: When masturbating with other girls, sometimes with guys, or when voyeurs like to watch, are all close to the most memorable
Fri, Mar 04 03:32 AM
16. Have you ever had multiple orgasms while masturbating?
ANS: It's a must
17. Do you use lubrication?
ANS: When I was 12 my mother took me to the gynecologist to see why I was so wet down there all the time. After inspection, she said that there was nothing wrong with me and some girls are just like that. When I get excited, the juices flow down my thighs, I'm not lying. So, I'll let you guess the answer ...lol
18. Have you ever been caught masturbating?
ANS: It's a regular occurrence at our house
19. If yes, by whom?
ANS: My sisters and my parents
20. Have you ever masturbated with a person of the opposite sex?
ANS: See #15
21. Have you ever masturbated with a person of the same sex?
ANS: See #15
22. Do you use anal play while masturbating?
ANS: Yes, mostly anal beads
23. Have you ever had an anally-related orgasm?
ANS: Not without simultaneous clitoral stimulation, no
24. What are the most times you masturbated on a single day?
ANS: I know at least 4
Fri, Mar 04 03:39 AM
25. What's the most unusual place you have masturbated?
ANS: It is hard for me to masturbate or have sex just anywhere because when I orgasm, I am very vocal and I scream.

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December 2021
Answer by Jess, 27 years old girl

Don't know at what age I started "playing", but I was 7 when I first had an orgasm. I didn't know at the time what it was, except it was good, so I kept doing it. Just me enjoying myself in bed, before sleep time. Not much more I can say. Rarely do it now since I got with my guy. No need to!

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December 2021
Anonymous girl aged about 19 years

I'm a complete and utter virgin, like I've literally done absolutely nothing in the realm of sex. You see, I'm waiting for the right person, & nobody has really ever come my way in terms of attraction. I didn't really kiss anybody thoroughly till college. I have a crazy high libido though. The most I've orgasmed is 25 in a sitting. On an average day, I usually go 5. If I'm the mood, I can get up to 10. It also doesn't take very long. Like I can do it in like 30 seconds if I really want to. I feel oddly skilled ? I've done it thousands of times since I was at least fourteen, and I don't watch porn... I just use my imagination. I don't understand why so many people I know don't even masturbate, or just can't even orgasm... even with a partner. Is this normal ? Does anyone else have the same thing as me?

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This is a testimony found on the web. Not sure at all whether it is genuine or made up, but still
interesting because possible. Laurie (27) wrote me this concerning the testimony:

If true, this is not this girl's first experience by far. First, in the story she is the one initiating this.
Such young girls do not do that unless they are already very familiar with it. So someone has been sexual
with this her way before this ...

I fingered my cousin
Sep 4, 2004

hey, i was 12 at the time and my cousin was 10. she was staying over at my house and she fell asleep in my bed, i was tired so i lied down next to her, she then started to hug me so i turned over to face her and hugged her back. she began to kiss me so i carried on and rolled myself on top of her, we were touching eachother and she put it hands down me shorts and started givin me a wank for a few minutes while i rubbed her pussy through her clothes, i then moved down on her and pulled her pj pants down and started to kiss her shaven tight pussy, i then began to touch it for a while and it slowly opened up by this time she was loving it. I then put my finger in and after a minute inserted 2 i then began kissing her again while fingering her i got faster and faster, she started to moan and groan and was rubbing herself on the top of her pussy i carried it on until she cummed then rubbed her pussy a bit more and kissed her some more she then started to suck my nob until i cummed in her mouth (only a bit coz i was 12 lol). We both then fell asleep under my blanket holding eachother, i want to do it again but i am not sure whether to.... wat should i do?

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Jan 2015, anonymous testimony

The night my grandmother died i was fingering her pussy even though she tried to fight she was too weak from the cancer to fight. when she died that same night before i woke mom to tell her i fucked her still warm wet pussy till i came and wiped it off her thighs.

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Feb 2017, anonymous testimony

My older sister came to visit us for a week. It was around 11pm and she came up into my room. Upset about her boyfriend she got under my blankets and cried to me about how bad he was. Her head on my chest slowly moved down to my cock, and I just froze there ! I ended up getting up and undressing her. First thing I thought was that her pussy was right there in front of me, and how wrong this was... I thought that I shouldn't do this, or at least use a condom ? But I could not resist, and ended up feeling her pussy lips with the head of my cock, and then I was balls deep. She had her hands on my sides and whispered it was ok and to do it. My better side said to pull out, but her finger nails on my side were locking ! I felt 3 huge spurts and then 2 smaller ones as I unloaded inside her. We both looked at each other as my grandmother slept below us, and spent the whole night naked with each other.

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Anonymous 52 years old man, sep 30, 2022. Most interesting testimony.

My mom said from birth after a bath and drying off on a towel she would rub me down with lotion and let me dry letting me explore which as all boys do if allowed to find and explore their penis. I would become very hard and eventually "make faces" then let go. To her it was obviously an orgasm. As I got older this continued and she asked me about it that confirmed it.

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January 2022
Testimony's summary of a 68 years old lady

- I started playing with myself when around eight, with a pillow between the legs, which was enjoyable but did not lead to a real orgasm. Afterwards it was plain fingering and later I did it with sausages.
- My First real masturbating orgasm occured when eleven.
- Very early I discovered in me some perverted desires.
When seventeen I was caught loudly fingering by a friend while being at his place for a few days. His wife was not home that day. Being too horny then to stop I just let him watch while I fingered laying on my back with closed legs. I opened my legs so he could have a good look at my rosy pussy. He sat near me and I let him finger and lick me. Oddly he did not seem wanting to fuck, but he made me very horny. A bit later he let enter in the room their house friend who jumped on the bed where I was still busy fingering my very wet pussy restlessly.
He laid a pillow on my face and another under my behind. I felt a cold nose, and a tongue different from his. It made me hotter and I had again an orgasm. He was breathing heavily and caressing my titties. Suddenly I felt something pushing and finding the way inside. It was heavy humping but I felt very horny because something unusual was going on. He set him on saying "cover that hot girl as with the wife". Now I understood it was something usual for them. I did not oppose resistance, just let it happen and was fine with it.
- I'm a bit of an exhibionist and was rather loose with men before marriage. I had regularly adventures with different guys. Nothing serious, as for many people I think. Till the day my husband suggested us to spice up our life. I did not agree immediately but gave in because deep inside me I loved the idea. He let other men fuck me while he watched, and that was it for him. We also had gangbangs and fucked as well with and without using a condom. Knowing I could get pregnant was a huge turnon for him as well as for me. Later we engaged into BDSM.

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February 2022, testimony by Jessie, 55 years old woman

1000% masturbation stress relief program is a good therapy. I discovered masturbating at 13 years of age.

My mom touched me one time and it tickled, and one time before my dad died, he also helped me in the shower, and that was when I felt the sensation. My mom touched me intentionally to see how I will react to it, and I guess my dad did the same too, but they were not aware that they both touched me.. my dad continued to do it to me over time and he makes me sit on him. His dick was the first one I ever felt, and one time, while I was sleeping, he played with my clit so hard it made me cum, and since then I never stopped.

Individually they knew, but my dad never told my mom what he did to me. He went further another night to lubricate my clit, and he managed to slide a couple of his fingers in. My mom only did it just once and never tried it again. I guess she just wanted to knew if I was a woman.

Thank you too cuz I haven't been bold enough to share this with anyone. I was young and naive and I hardly knew what was going on, I trusted him cuz he is my dad. He gave me his private to play with while he rubbed, and so I couldn't say no. After a while he did put it inside of me and he was damn huge for a girl that young.

Yes, he should've stopped, but he didn't, and every night before bed he came inside of me while my mom thought he tucked me in for bed. She'll be downstairs doing the dishes and he'll be inside of me with his hands around my mouth. He wouldn't stop till he cums.

When I woke up for school in the morning was when I actually masturbated, and most nights when he worked late. My mom didn't know till this very day about everything that happened. Your the first and only one besides him.

All I knew as a young girl was to be there for my dad when he needed me to. My body reacted all the times he touched me, and I knew it felt some type of way to have such inside me. That was pretty much it.

These days I don't do it so much (masturbating). Do you ?

Mom never knew cuz I never said a word to her, not even till this day. She noticed the blood in my pants and got mad about it and asked how it came about. I told her I forced my fingers into it and she told me not to do it anymore.

I guess my mother didn't suspect anything. She practically was kept in the dark about it. She only thought about another woman outside the house, but not me. I always heard her scream every night after he got done with me while she did the dishes. She moaned too loud and most times she cried out of pleasure. So she never thought for once he'll be with another woman cuz she thought she was his all. He pleasured her so much she never suspected a thing. Even the neighbors complained due to how she screams and I can hear them talking about it. He did it to her every night, and then, morning before she leaves for work.

My dad usually dropped me off at school, so he makes me sit untop of him in the drive way before he pulls out. So he came twice every morning, one in my mom before work, and another before he drops me off at school. In class will be able to feel his cum drip out of me, and when my teacher noticed, I told her I peed myself ;0) She'll let me out of the class, and then I'll go play with myself in the lavatory.

Mind you, I was just thirteen at the time. He abused me. I had no idea, all I was doing was what daddy told me to. I never knew it was wrong at the time. He was too huge for me to handle, but he told me not to cry else I won't be his girl anymore, and he assured me this was what every daughter does for their dad.

I had no control of my body afterwards. One time, he nutted 3 times inside of me because I got so horny I told him not to stop. If it wasn't time for my mom to return we would've gone on and on. I begged him not to stop. So he stretched my insides so bad, and was just thirteen. He put his fist inside of me just to get me to back off, but I wanted more and more. I wasn't ready to stop.

Most nights I joined my parents in bed, and stay right in there middle, and when my mom was fast asleep he slides in from the back. One night we thought my mom was asleep but she wasn't, and immediately she spoke he slid back out. My mom heard me moan and thought something hurt me so she asked what it was...

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March 2022
Significant testimony of an anonymous 28 years old girl

I am not opposed to sex at a young age as long as it is consensual. I have been involved a lot with parents and siblings for many years since I was much younger than I first admit to anyone.

Young ones are not harmed by learning about sex at a young age. My sisters and I were never harmed by it. Our parents are swingers. Our mother taught us everything there is to know about lesbian sex but always left it up to us as to what we wanted to do as we grew older.

Our dad taught us about the male anatomy and how to please a boy.
Parents are supposed to provide good sex education and ours did.

The 55 year old lady on your page that had a lot of sex with her dad from when she was 13 seemed conflicted. She loved it but then she said she was abused, which means it was not consensual, so I would agree with her under that circumstance.

I think it is important to tell them that they can stop any time they want, that way it is for sure consensual and not forced.

We have one girlfriend that is having sex with her brother and another one that is having sex with her brother and her dad. Both since they were young and they like it.

This is not all that rare in the area where we live, especially with brothers and sisters or even same sex siblings.

And on a lighter subject, one of my sisters is 4 years younger than me and the other one is 8 years younger.

My mother would always have me give them a bath so I always made sure they were extra clean in all the right places. They were forever asking me when I was going to give them their bath ...lol. We still bath together to this day.

A guy told me once he was at the beach sunbathing and a girl around eight was there with her mother wandering by and the girl went over to him and pulled up the front of his bathing suit and grabbed his cock. He said the Korean looking mother just walked over and picked her up and smiled at him as she was walking away.

Sometimes young ones are just curious when exposed to adult nudity and can learn to do that if not told not to but yes, many times it is because they are taught to do it. Again, I am ok with it as long as it is not forced. Young ones get curious.

I understand in the oriental culture that sort of thing is common at least an 18 year old Japanese girl told me it is.

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March 2022, Alex, 56 years

You are interested in women masturbating while crossing legs ? Me too.....
When I was young I had a girl-friend she only could masturbate that way. But she was perfect... Unfortunately I never found another girl again like that....! More exactly: one who made this "public" and showed me...

I am sure there are lots of women doing that way. But they are doing it that way to keep secret, trying to hide they are masturbating.

I am getting horny and excited, while watching women masturbating, escpecially when they are using an exciting method. If you want I can tell you some of my numerous and hot experiences watching my girl friend.....!

The most exciting eperiences were the moments when I got to know about these things. If you are interested to know, I will tell you.

We were in the early twenties. I have the same passion as you: watching women and girls masturbating. We lived 3 years together and had lots experience in fucking in different positions, when she asked me one day:
Can you show me how you are doing it alone ?
I was very surprised. Not any one had ever asked me to do so.
I promised to do so, if she would show me how she is pleasing herself alone...

She had to wear exciting clothes and sit in front of me as a living picture. First she had to turn around looking away from me, when I got more and more excited I allowed her to change seat...

She had to wear exciting clothes and sit in front of me as a living picture. First she had to turn around looking away from me, when I got more and more excited I allowed her to change seat... She did it in cycles of more and more increasing orgasm (6-8) and this lasted for about 40 min... Enough time to get horny as hell.

She often did it from excitement, frightening she could not finish her report before deadline. She did it it when she was preparing for a presentation. She liked to do it alone, and she liked to show me, I had the opportunity to spy her....

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25 feb 2022 - To what did you masturbate the first time ?

Tom, man aged 55
I think I was 12, I was in my bed trying to go to sleep, and my penis itched so I started scratching it. It felt good, so I scratched some more. Pretty soon, it started getting bigger so I rubbed it, thinking that would make it go down. It didn't, it just felt even better until it squirted some white liquid out. I thought I had peed in my bed.

Anonymous girl aged 27
Watching neighbors in their car I was on my veranda.

Sue, girl aged 18
When nine or ten I landed on the porn sites by accident and then I got curious and started mimicking their moves until it felt good to do it often.

Kathy, woman aged 39
Curiosity about my body.

Laurie, girl aged 27
Deep discussions and experiences with some other girls.

Satti, man aged 34
Well one of my classmates who was a couple of years elder to us told us that it's magical to play with it. I was shit scared seeing the white fluid come out and thought something was wrong and those were the internet dialup days, had to wait till the next day to understand it's alright.

Man aged 35
A hard dick that I had no control over, it just started to get hard on its own and the urge to rub it.

Lukas, man aged 30
I saw a woman who wore a ultra thin, transparent pantyhose and skirt. My masturbate and my fetish started that day :)

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Girl, 24 years old, april 2022:

When I'm horny I usually do my best to ignore the urge. If I can't ignore it, I will edge myself throughout the day until I can't take it anymore. Then give a little attention to my clit and my orgasm comes almost instantly. I use a combination of my imagination and erotica books when I touch myself. I love a good fantasy story.

I don't need to masturbate daily even though I feel constantly aroused. I enjoy feeling horny until I have no other choice but to give myself release.

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Girl aged 23, may 2022

My ex cheated on me. At first it upset me a little. But than I started
thinking more and it aroused me more than anything ever had. My
boyfriend from highschool. We were together my full 4 years (he was 2
grades ahead of me) but he cheated on me all 4 years. I knew he was
cheating but acted like I didn't. When he went away to college it went
into like overdrive. All I could think of was him with other women. I
had never been that aroused in my life. When he sent a text breaking up
with me because he found the girl of his dreams their I spent that
night rereading the message while touching myself. Since than I always
imagine whoever I am dating cheating on me. I have had 2 more
boyfriend's and 1 girlfriend in that time and thought of them cheating
on me too. My last boyfriend actually did cheat on me with my own
cousin. But I didn't find out until after. But even that turned me on.

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Girl aged 27, june 2022

I only really masturbate during phone sex or in person foreplay to tease the guy. Other than that, I dont masturbate. But i do watch porn as a stress reliever. I dont masturbate to it but i’ll certainly be watching it tonight. I have mental gasms. I dont need to touch nyself to cum. And sometimes i dont need to physically cum to orgasm. I hate the idea of edging so definitely not similar to that. My imagination doesn't work sexually. I need sound to be turned on. Also, yes i can cum from nipple play but hardly do nipple play anymore.

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Girl aged 19, june 2022

I was out clubbing when I met this really hot guy. While on the dance floor, I was grinding on him and then he put his hand down my shorts and started flicking my bean very rapidly, it didn't take long for me to reach orgasm and cum. The bigger problem that I had was that I'm a heavy squirter and squirted all over myself leaving both my thong and the shorts that I was wearing at the time completely drenched and it looked like I wet myself. The guy took me to the toilets so I could dry off and we ended up having sex in the toilet cubicle instead and then got I dressed, got in an Uber with him which took us to his house and we had sex again and then again when we woke up the next morning.

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Man aged 45, july 2022

My cousin asked to me to show her mine and she would show me hers so I did then she showed me hers and I got hard. Because I got hard she wanted to touch it and she'd let me touch hers so I touched her first and she liked it and it was as her body reacted like she got an electric shock as I touched her, she touched mine and I came almost instantly. From then on we continued like that sneaking away to experiment with each other eventually we were as boyfriend and girlfriend though people just thought we were close.
(https://www.girlsaskguys.com/qt/sexual-behavior/q4859287-at-what-age-did-you-find-out-males-females-have-different-sexual#new)

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Man aged 57, august 2022

In Germany I was educated as Catholic in an area 15 years past time. There was no sex apparently, only hidden. When I was five or six I found in these, as I then felt, strange surroundings, a girl of about eight or nine, to have some pleasant games. God sent me this girl ! I know God is not a Catholic. To God has to pray daily...! It was very nice. I felt seduced but not misused ! I could stand up and go in any time ! But the situation was so exciting that I never missed her invitation.

We did it outside in field of high grown golden rods. This was where we as little ones went to pee, but it was so exciting ! I could not write my name, but I could please a young girl with 3 of my fingers. The first time she guided my hand into her small and narrow cunt, feeling the hot pearl inside. When I moved my mid finger she started to moan and told me to continue. I think she had some experience, but she was also a clever girl.

At the age of nine she was a "communion girl". She had to confess such sins, but when I touched her it was not a sin for her ! I think she had not confessed it. So I thought she was not only a clever girl, but also very good at keeping it all secret...

It was in the nearby village where I visited my grandmother. So you see: we as younglings made our own thing. We enjoyed and had our system to avoid trouble. These experiences lasted for one and a half year... Then her parents moved 200 miles away.

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October 2022, man about 50 years old:
My best friend and high school girlfriend is a lesbian. A few times after a real bad break up with an ex she let me watch her and her girlfriend have sex while I jerked off. She has done stuff a few times in the past even though she has no sexual intrest in me or men. I always felt she was the girl I should have ended up with. In the past she's let me join in with one girlfriend who was curious about sex with a man, she has let me jerk off to her naked as reward for helping her, she has performed sex acts and had sex with me in the past when she and I were both single at the same time and she even set me up on dates. She's a good friend.

Paul, alias mstbooblover, man aged 68, oct. 2022:
Jerking off once a day is already more than enough. When I was younger I only now and then had to masturbate in the morning because of an urge, but then indeed it was a real urge ;0) I still had good sex with my wife, but occasionally I really had to just wank and cum quickly.

Man aged 36, oct. 2022:
In the morning I always start by laying in bed and stroking myself. I, then, try to take my time and do things properly with a cup of coffee. If I am feeling particularly amorous, I will sometimes give it a quick third pull in the shower. —but without getting off at least once, I don’t feel quite right to start my day.

Man aged 65, oct. 2022:
My routine in the morning is usually get up and put coffee on. Take a pee and drink a cup of coffee before jerking off. It depends on if I am on cam with a girl weather I do it once or twice before getting ready for work. If I am on cam then twice, not on cam then only once.

Man aged 27, dec. 2022:
I helped my step sister masturbate when we were teenagers. She broke her arm and fingers, and couldn’t get herself off with the other arm. I started to see her get meaner and meaner. Turns out she was just sexually frustrated.
One day I asked her what was wrong, she told me, So I told her I'll do it to her as long as our parrents didn't find out. I did it for 2-3 months until her cast came off and she was able to use her hand again.
During that time I learned she was a squirter. We tried fisting, And I even got to taste her.

Paul, alias mstbooblover, man aged 68, dec. 2022:
I did not masturbate often for someone else. A few times at the border school together with a room mate. When I was around 20 for a good friend, who did the same. Sometimes for my wife when she felt like, which was not often because she prefered me to cum inside her. Mind on the other hand she did it for me now and then because I loved to watch.
These last years, being widower, I tried a few times with men out of curiosity, but I couln't get hard nor cum because men do not inspire me. I still liked the way those men showed themselves as they were, and they had no problems to jerk and cum. A matter of precious confidence.
I would like to ask some women to masturbate for me for real, but that's not exactly what ladies want to hear, and I'm able to behave correctly... ;0)

Man aged around 40 years, dec. 2022:
Do I play with toys ? Realistic sex dolls. Yeah I put my cock in it and thrust while I watch porn. She's just like my wife only better looking and nicer to be around. My wife just watches me fuck the love doll with a scowl on her face. She's pissed off because I named my sex doll Cindy after her sister. I let my wife move Cindy up and down on my cock sometimes. I say "Honey, come help your sister."

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Girl aged 27, dec. 2022

Touching myself would only piss me off lol. I’m never satisfied. It's like my finger doesn't go deep enough or fast enough. And I struggle to take more than one. I can’t twist it like I want and so on. So I just don’t. Toys are not an option because I only want the real thing so I’ve never tried a toy and likely never will. It helps that I can cum without touching myself but it frustrates me because it makes me get sleepy since I use porn/audio as a lullaby anyways.

If I was touching myself, allowing someone else to, or simply having sex, then I’m crazy energetic and like to go all day and night until it hurts to walk (otherwise I'm not satisfied.) I just have to feel worn out. So yea masturbating just isn't for me unless it's someone else fingering me. But then if they finger me, I start to crave sex and that's another battle that I have to fight because I don’t like having sex early on. I know, I’m a mess lol.

I remember when I first started masturbating. It was like the end of 2015 or 2016 and I would just not do anything but that all day. This was long before I had a job so for like 3 months, I’d hardly eat/sleep/watch tv/hang with family because I’d shut myself in my room and just go at it. Then when I would go out with people, I’d take a blanket and just be going at it to where they didn't notice... I was so horrible. I quit for good by 2017 with the exception of times I have phone sex.

I def broke my porn and masturbation addiction. As for the “getting enough nookie”, I don't know. I dont get religious guilt from masturbation but I do from sex. So I always try to hold out as long as possible. I just dont like premarital sex that much. I dont do either (sex with a guy and masturbation) often lol. The sex would make me feel like a bad Christian and the masturbation would leave me unsatisfied.

I'm prob the only person who’d still prefer he fingers me over dicking me down. Omg being fingered while having my tits sucked is def the way to go. Fck now im, nvm. Mmmm that open air feeling. I like when the breeze hits me while I'm wet. Just makes me part my legs wider.

I def did masturbate years back as a way to relieve stress. But it ended up causing more stress and frustration because it was never enough. I needed more ! I wasn't depressed lmao. It was my first time masturbating lol. I was slick addicted. It's weird because I had been fingered way before 2015, several times by my boyfriend. Made me cum regarding which time. But I didn't play with myself until long after him. I have self control.

Yes I think some people worded it better. I only find enjoyment in masturbating if I'm doing it as a request or by guidance which is probably why I can only do it in phone sex. I wouldn't enjoy masturbating for the sake of it. I can only do it with the goal of turning someone else on so that they cum. So yea I’ll continue not masturbating and I’ll just keep cumming through the powers of my mind (or until I have the right helping hand knocking at my front door).

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Man aged 60, dec. 2022:
My mother loved masterbating in the kitchen. I would be eating and she would start masterbating for me. For some reason the kitchen was her favorite room to masterbate.

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Girl aged about 32, feb. 2023:

I went for a run alone to a park I've never ran at before. I ran passed an old man sitting at a bench stroking his dick over his pants. I looked, smiled but kept going. I've actually been really horny lately, I thought if I go around the trail and see him again I can do something so he can talk to me. I'm sure he was checking out all the ladies running there. It is a park only for running, no playground for the little ones. I ran the trail, got back to where he was and he was still sitting there stroking. I walked passed him stared and smiled and I said hi. He said hi but nothing else. I kept walking and he shouted something, I turned around and he signaled for me to go to him so I did. I sat next to him. He was dressed nice and smelled good. He asked me my name and then asked me to kiss him, I said no. He said one kiss, I agreed but he went crazy kissing me. Too aggressively. What I was hoping was to go somewhere private with him. I didn't want to kiss but I'm all for touching, I thought at least we can go to my car. I tried to stop him from kissing me but he didn't want to. Regardless I was so turned on. I kept telling him to stop, eventually he did. I got up and left quickly, he followed close behind and asked for one more kiss I said no but he thanked me. I walked faster to my car. I looked behind me before getting to my car and he was gone. I drove off, halfway home I was really wet. I thought if I go back I can ask him to come to my car with me and not get sexy in public. I made a U turn. I was about 20 minutes away, hoping he would still be there. I got there and he was gone. I hope I didn't scare him, I was a bit nervous and i think he could tell that I was. Is it likely he'll be at that park again? Maybe if I go back around the same time tomorrow?

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April 2023

Girl aged 19: "I was masturbating with objects other than just my finger and often. I was pretty hypersexual (shitty young years to thank for that). When it came to losing my virginity I was so worried i was going to be “loose” and that he wouldn’t believe me that i was a virgin. Those thoughts faded quickly after we got into the act. I knew first time sex was suppose to be uncomfortable but i underestimated just how much it could hurt ! Pure pain was as if nothing had been up there before it didn’t help the more I moaned “ow” the harder he went. He was on the smaller side too. It’s kinda funny to me now to look back at how worried I was."

Girl aged 32: "I definitely used fingers and other items for penetration ! I was just enjoying myself and exploring, wasn't bothered about it being a penis the first time I had something inside me, I was just having fun !".

Girl aged 35: "I had been messing around with my hairbrush handle since I was 14 but my first time having sex with a guy was different. Definitely painful."

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April 2023, man aged 55

I was between 12 and 14 and, after dad taught us what the word, "jagoff" means, I was in my parents' room one afternoon watching Abbott & Costello and started to wonder what good doing that to yourself could possibly be so, as I laid there on mom's bed, I whipped it out and pulled my pud for about 15 or 20 minutes until this thick yellowish goo oozed out of me! I couldn't imagine what this was ! I don't recall it feeling really good or special so, I just ran into the bathroom, cleaned myself off and went back to watching TV ! Some time later, (that night, the next day, the next week, I'm not sure when), I decided to try it again and this time white goo came out and it started to feel pretty good ! I still had no clue what purpose this serves or what that goo was but, it gradually felt better each time I tried it. So, now, every time I see the Susquehanna Hat episode, I have an uncontrollable urge to jag off ! Once, someone just mentioned that episode and I started humping the leg of some old lady that just happened to be standing near me !! She gave me her number but, I never saw her again.

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April 2023, woman aged 33

Pillow-humping is simply divine ! I do it at least once a day. If your legs are getting tired, it might help to add more pillows or towels, stack them up. That way you're sitting higher, and you're not using your legs as much but rather your hips. You could also grab hold of the bedhead, and push against that as you grind. For me personally, sliding against a towel, which I place on the pillow(s), really adds to the pleasure. Maybe it's the fabric they're made out of, or the material, or both, but I've had some really mind-blowing orgasms when I've done that.

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April 2023, man aged 55 about masturbating together with another person

The guy next door asked me to go up to his room when I was about 14 and he made me play with his dick while he played with mine. The neighbor lived with his mother but he was in his 30's. I was 14. A few weeks before, I borrowed his copy of Jesus Christ Superstar and, when I gave it back to him, he said he had something else to show me up in his room.

He also got my younger brother and sister !! And, one night, I was sleeping on the porch swing, as I did every summer night if it was too hot in my room, and woke up around 3:00 a.m. to some guy standing over my head beating off !! I couldn't wake up enough to see who it was but, I suspect it was him with a wig on !!

Otherwise, I helped my 2nd girlfriend Jill-off a few years ago. She let me touch it bout wouldn't let me lick it or put my finger into it. Basically, we were just friends but, she'd, recently, told me she wanted to be my girlfriend. I just didn't feel that way towards her anymore, but gave it a shot. Nothing came of it, you can take that any way you like. Well, I guess she came and, not long after decided she didn't want to be my girlfriend anymore ! A couple weeks later, she didn't even wanna be my friend anymore !! She didn't get what she wanted. First off, I just wasn't in love with her, anymore so, I just didn't wanna fuck her. we tried several times but I just couldn't !

Another friend asked me to help her Jill-off over the phone. I think I was on the phone with her late one night and she decided to pull out her vibrator and play with herself while talking to me. Eventually, she told me so and asked me to try to help her cum by talking dirty to her, and such.

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May 2023, girl aged 21

Since very early in life I have been in nudist camps. I like nudity and nature.

At 13 years I discovered masturbation and orgasm with a female cousin aged 18 who had lesbian tendencies. She caressed me gently and made me discover the vibrator. Things went on softly and gently and we caressed each other regularly. At first I enjoyed but didn't reach an orgasm, but some time later I started to climax really well. My parents didn't explain me anything, only my cousin, as well to help me as for her lesbian tendencies.

Sometimes it happens that we masturbate together among girlfriends, but not in the presence of a guy.

I'm a bit of an exhibitionist, and now and then I enjoy walking on nudist beaches to show myself. It's rather pleasant when a guy starts wanking while watching me. I don't do more on the beach, but in the bungalows I sometimes have sex, as well with guys as girls. I consider myself as bisexual. When watching porn, I like to see outdoor beach lesbian sex.

Now my cousin and I have less intimate moments together. Before it was all the time. What a girl is interested in is sex. We were with a guy or two at the camping, in the bungalows or caravans. It was my cousin, in the summer, who chose the guys and girls we would have fun with.

When I see a girl masturbating, whether it excites me or not, depends on the girl. I was 14 when I saw for the first time a girlfriend masturbating, and I loved it.

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May 2023, man aged 41 wishing to become a woman

I plan one day to become a real woman and wished I started my transition when I was younger. I was a coward for too much time but now I'm being the woman I was born to be. Believe it or not, I was a married man about 1 year ago, but my life was a nightmare.

I wish intimity only with men. I hated having to lick my ex wife's pussy. I was born to suck cock not to lick pussy. I've always loved men. My father was the first man I ever loved for real. When I was a boy I always believed that one day I would have somehow breasts and a pussy. My father made my life hell, he never accepted me as a girl.

I've been on female hormones for 1 year and my breasts are more sensitive but the size hasn't changed. I hope later this year to travel to Thailand and get breast implants. I want to have breasts bigger than the bitch of my ex wife. I want her to envy my breasts, and I want my breasts to be firm. I love big breasts but I'm afraid it would kill my back. I wouldn't be able to stand up for long times for sure. I dont want to have saggy breasts, I want them firm like I was a teenager. Men would stare at me and women would envy me.

I weigh 72kg for a size of 178cm. I need to lose about 5kg. I want my penis to be removed as soon as possible. Can't wait to have a working pussy so that men can fuck it. Even if I can't have orgasms anymore it will be worth it. All it matters is that I feel and look like a real feminine sexy woman. You know that i don't even touch my cock. Playing with it makes me feel masculine and I hate feeling that. I try to always have my cock soft and limp.

I have sissygasms when I'm being fucked in the ass by a man that knows what he is doing. It's not a real orgasm but it gives me pleasure and i leak a transparent liquid. I feel my anus contracting around his cock milking it hard. Men immediately know when I'm having sissygasms. It's not the same as the orgasms I had when I was a man but it's way more feminine.

I love having a man that knows what he is doing fucking my ass. If I could I would have a cock fucking my ass several times a day. Of course the guys must know what they are doing with you. Some guys have fucked my ass in some ways that I don't had any pleasure. But some guys know exactly how to make me have pleasure.

So it would be a problem for you when I decide to do the sex reassignment surgery and have a pussy ? Would you still fuck me when I have a pussy ? Love, I can make any man have erections. I did a guy that was 85. It took me about 45 minutes to get it hard but I made him cum inside my mouth. In the end he even cried from happiness. It was a magical moment for both of us. I LOVE doing older men. They remind me of my father. He had the dream of me becoming a military like him. We never fucked because he wouldn't do it but I've always wanted it. As a teen I would go at night to the door of his room and watch him fuck my mother and imagined I was in her place. Yes, it was impossible for me to become a military.

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June 2023, different interesting comments on hidden masturbation videos

- My aunt once stayed with us for a month. I remember walking in on her while she was using one (vibrator) on herself. I was confused as she was 'crying.' Boy do I have more stories about her. I tell my gf to close the blinds when she masturbates BUT she never listens LOL.

- This takes me back to when I was a girl. I found my Mum had one of those 'massagers' after snooping in her bedroom. It was the infa red type, but had the vibrating function too. I had many a happy afternoon kneeling on her bedroom floor when I had alone time after school, pressing it against myself! If I knew I was home alone for a while, I often quickly stripped nude in my room, and went to hers to use it naked. I am sure she also used it for more than just 'massaging'....

- Yup, reminds me of mom, just reading and rubbing every night.

- My wife also masturbates under the covers, just like that and I have several videos to prove it. And like a lot of other guys have posted, she saya she doesn't masturbate. Gotta love the new night vision cameras !

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June 2023, comment of a tranny aged 43

Liking trans, tranvestite,... I believe got nothing to do with being gay ! They are feminine and wear sexy female clothing, what attracts you ! So nothing wrong with it ! Gay, I believe is when you are attracted to men and male looks ! Don’t let it hold you back thinking it is gay.

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June 2023, US woman aged 39

I am 39 years single with no youngs. Oh, I was in relationship, but it's unfortunate that my life was in danger, so I divorced. And please I do not masturbate too. I have done it before but not regularly. I discovered it at the age of 25, by myself. I fingered.

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July 2023, woman aged probably between 30 and 40 years

I got turned on by a hangman's noose when I was in my early teens and saw a noosed woman in one of my brother's Lads Mags.
I think it was the helplessness that made a teenage girl interested ! I used to dream that it was me on the gallows with my little skirt blowing around showing my legs and panties.

I used my school tie or a belt while I fingered myself. Later some school girlfriends introduced me to a big fat pen which I inserted in my pussy while I choked myself. It was a fantastic feeling!

Later as an adult, on an adventure holiday, I met a rock climbing instructor. I fancied him like mad and after the course we began a relationship. I eventually confessed my somewhat kinky desires and he made me a real noose. We role played and I came almost as soon as the noose closed around my neck ! I have been his noose bitch ever since.

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July 2023, girl aged 28, about how she discovered masturbation

In the past, porn was not so accessible, because there was no Internet like now. When I was 16, I tried it with my fingers, on my own, when I saw it in a movie.

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August 2023

- Girl aged 26: I don’t watch porn, instead I watch my favorite YouTube video on my laptop and masturbate laying in bed. Laying in bed is the most comfortable for me and this particular YouTube video gets me so turned on that it’s a must when I do it. I’d rather not share the video only because a lot of people would find it strange that this particular video gets me really turned on.
- Other girl aged 26: I usually just relax in bed half or fully naked and rub my clit.
- Girl aged 22: On chair or a bed after watching or reading something exotic.
- Guy aged 24: Laying in bed, at night, before going to sleep. And again 8 hours later when I wake up.
- Guy aged 25: I be in my bed without any clothes and then I masterbate when I am watching porn.

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Sept. 2023, 70 years old lady

My husband got addicted to watching porn whole days since many years, which led him to be exhausted to the point not approaching me at all anymore. He's very depressive, and I'm in the process of a divorce. He agreed, but on the other hand he said he wouldn't have to show up because he would maybe have killed himself before. I'm not interested in pleasing myself and don't want to be involved with another woman. To have a mutual masturbation session, I need to have feelings for the guy. I'm willing to accept a lover, but want to be seduced by the man. Getting older terrifies me...

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October 2023

Question: You're an interesting girl with interesting fetishes. I'm interested in knowing how old you were and in what circumstances you discovered masturbation and orgasm. Also how you discovered your kinks, like choking for instance.

Answer by Mrm, girl around 30 years old:

I am interested in several different "fetish" treatments. I like to watch someone be suffocated or hanged. Or electric torture. Or punching. Branding/burning. Maybe there are some boys who should be slowly hanged until they pee on themselves.

I like to make my clitoris and most of my vulva numb, by rubbing it with lidocaine. This helps reduce the danger of having an orgasm before I am ready for it.

I think my puberty started shortly before I turned 13. So most of the early exploration would have taken place when I was 13. I was living at a boarding school at the time, so it was a very odd and completely isolated environment I was in at that time. I really didn't have much of a clue about sex or orgasm, so I really had to figure it out myself. But I guess it became an obsession fairly quickly after that.

I think that most of those fetishes I mostly discovered in situations that were not really sexy as such, for instance at the boarding school there was a group of 3 bullies who were always trying to get at me, and one time they cornered me in the shower room where they twisted my arms and put a plastic bag over my head. They kept it on until I urinated on myself and collapsed on the floor. And even though the panic was absolutely horrible, there just was something about it that stuck with me, and years later I began experimenting with stuff like that myself. So maybe part of the explanation could be that some of those kinks were sort of amplified by that pretty rough/brutal environment I was in at that time.

It might have been about a year after I first began to masturbate, around that time anyway.

Like I said, there certainly wasn't anything sexy or fun about that situation. But I think it was more that those situations made me notice those types of interests, I'm pretty sure they were already there even before I aware of my own sexuality.

I don't think I've ever actually masturbated while choking or anything like that, usually would do that afterwards.

I simply discovered masturbation by exploring my body after my puberty began. When I had my first orgasm, I didn't even know what it was or why it happened.

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December 2023, Girl aged 32

I just don't get it. When I masturbate (clitoral and penetration) I never had trouble reaching orgasm. But when I'm with a partner I can rarely if ever get there, which in turn makes me stress about it, and obviously will make things worse.

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January 2024, Indian girl aged 23

Masturbation. I started when I was 8. I actually can't remember how I discovered it. Just touching around at night and guess. It feels good when I touch certain places.

I was 12 when I saw my grandpa masturbate. That was very eye opening. I was ashamed watching, but could not stop myself from watching. That night I touched myself and started fantasing about my grandpa watching me dance. That was really shameful that I enjoyed it. Well, to this day seeing a mature man jerk off is actually a turn on for me.

Yes, I understood what he (grandpa) was doing. I was old enough to realize. I mean
I have seen penis from books but his was the first one I saw. When he came I did not know about that. So seeing him shoot his cum came as a surprise. After finishing he held his dick which was covered in a lot of cum and I swear he fell asleep for a few minutes like that. Then after awhile he used a tissue to clean himself off then went to bed. I masturbated and had probably my first real orgasm that night. Well really intense one. I use to find porn he would watch in the dvd player. When no one was home I would watch. I remember masturbating to it thinking I am cumming to the same thing he did. That idea always turned me on.

Since then I remembered seeing and hearing my parents have sex. I think I had always heard since I was young but never put two and two together till after seeing grandpa and watching porns. They would be quiet but not so quiet I couldn't hear. I would masturbate listening. I saw my Mom suck my Dad off. I didn't watch like I did with grandpa. I quickly went back upstairs.

Grandpa maybe crossed a line or two when I was a little older. I mean I was not against it at all. When I was older he used to sit next to me and rub his crotch under a blanket. While resting his hand on my legs. I knew it was wrong.... but guilty I enjoyed it. I learned men, all men, young and old, would be turned on by my body. That sort of power (wrong word but best for now) was intoxicating. I quite enjoyed it. Knowing that when I wanted I could wear a little dress and make men weak. Father was always a very dominant man. He would tell me to sit there and sometimes cross my legs some times stretch them out. Always saying I am beautiful. Both Daddy and grandpa were very dominant men.

He (Dad) would get hard when I sat on his lap. A few times when my Dad was drunk and mom was away for 6 months, he would act inappropriately towards me. I took on the role of mom. Did the household chores, took care of my brothers and there were times I felt I was taking the role on as wife since mom was not there. I wouldn't say my dad abused me, but things went further than masturbating. Well, I have given my dad oral.... a few times. Mom was away in a different country and I think he was lonely. Also I found the role of woman in the house erotic. I enjoyed it. I already gave boys oral before but it was different with dad, more intense. I was 15, maybe 16. The last time he did it I begged him to fuck me.... He came but he said we had to stop. I wish he never stopped.

I always regretted begging him to fuck me, since we stopped. It was different with him, like right now talking to you making me wet. He used to pump my mouth. And moan. He used to tell me how dirty I am, how slutty I dressed. It was hot hearing him call me a slut. I loved it. He had me on my knees.

I love old men getting hard ! I am masturbating legs crossed. I can have an orgasm maybe 7 times a day.

I have given 3 different men blowjobs at work. One day I ended being locked in the elevator with one man. We were stuck there for over an hour. It took me 15 minutes to be on my knees sucking his cock. He was fucking my mouth like a school boy. He thanked me so many times. Hehe...

I understand pushing a man too far.... I got out of two speeding tickets.... One officer was just really nice to me the other officer took me out of the car in front of my boyfriend and patted me down. He got jealous but what could he do ? He would have got arrested. I honestly got turned on feeling his hand on my bare legs.

I work in retail in the mall and go to uni. Currently I am doing a practicum at an assisted living place. Men and women who are capable just need a litle help with some stuff. Many horny mature older men. They are my weakness. I do tease and flirt with the men. I think I have more fun (than the men). Men have touched my thighs, spanked my bum. I feel so crazy when they do that.

I enjoy watching men masturbate. If I am on my knees and you jerked off I would be in heaven. Sometimes use my mouth to jerk off in. I am not into women but do enjoy mature dominant men.

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April 2024

Black girl aged 25:
I discovered masturbation the very moment I fell in love with this guy..... I could think about him and that made me start playing with myself. But since we are no more, that ended. I was just about 21. I just played with my hands. Oh yeah... I am only human, I sometimes feel that need and just indulge...

Girl aged around 25:
The first time I masturbated, I was fifteen years dear. I played with my sister, with a dildo. We masturbated together while watching porn. I have a video of my sister and me fucking.

Woman aged 38:
I started exploring my body and discovered masturbating at about 15 years, stimulating my clitoris with my fingers, fantasizing on erotic materials, back then magazines. Not very frequent with me. I never masturbated with another girl.

Woman aged 40:
I am a virgin and never had sex with any man before. I have only been in a relationship with only one man, but because of his attitude I didn’t allow him to have sex with me. No, I don’t masturbate, because I have feelings for the man who will love me as his wife and take me beside him. How can I do that when I have no feeling for that, tell me ? At the moment let me your mind because I am single and I want to please my man with anything he wants from me.

Italian man aged 40:
When I was young my mother worked my cock with her hands. She wanted to teach me to last longer ... When we fucked I lasted about twenty seconds and I came. She got angry. It took at least a year of work to be able to last a few minutes. I remember it pleasantly now, but it was stressful at the time.

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April 2024, woman aged 39

Just for you to know, I’m not offended with what you ask since I’ve got nothing to hide. I’ll tell you everything. Anyway, about masturbation, I got exposed to that when I was in college, and also it was actually my roommate who initiated me into that, and for the first time playing with myself gave me a different kind of pleasure, but it also wasn’t something I continued because we weren’t together for long. So I’ll say I never got addicted, but I know of that, and I do that sometimes lol.

Well at first it started when she actually inserted a dildo, then when I got wet she started fingering while I also inserted my fingers to dipping into my pussy in and out slowly while I moaned with passion. Well, it was a great feeling I never ever felt, especially when she was eating up my pussy. I was in college so I was 18 by then.

That ended (with other girls) I do that myself without any other girl though. Well, now I do it with a dildo or sometimes fingering. I don’t have a lover, so yes, you know I’ll be doing it alone.

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Indian girl aged 32, april 2024, about discovering masturbation and orgasm:

Actually it's like a story. When I was likely 14-15 years, and I came to know about this when I was 8-9 years.

Mmmm... When I was a young girl, like 7-8 years, my parents kept a governess to take care of me. She used to do my everything, from morning to sleep. She always took shower along with me. Having completed my shower she sat me on the commode and then she took her shower.

One day I didn't want to take the shower, and she went alone to bath. When I changed my mind and went to the bath, I wanted to take shower... Suddenly I opened the door and saw that she was rubbing her breast by one hand, with the other on her pussy. I was just shocked to see that, and kept my eyes on her body. I was thinking "what's happening".

Suddenly she stopped that, and grabbed me into the bath. When she was scrubbing me with the soap. I saw a smile on the edge of her lips. Then I asked her, what she had been doing there. She replied, "if you don't tell anybody about this", then she would explain me what that was. I agreed with her. Then she showed me everything, when I couldn't understand anything.

Then she started to touch my pussy with her fingers. Some while later she started to suck my pussy, and teach me about the feelings. But frankly speaking, I couldn't have any feelings.

Then she asked me just to keep my eyes on what she did when she masturbated herself in front of me. Then my curiosity grew up. That's actually what happened.

The very next day she brought a tiny book for me to teach. All the pages were just naked. She showed me every page and she taught me the basic difference between boys and girls, and what the sex is. Everything.

Same day while having shower, she sucked me, and I started to feel what I saw some while earlier. Yes, she was sucking me. I wanted to find the pleasure. She tried to make me reach orgasm. Frankly speaking, I couldn't find any pleasure.

After 2-3 years had past, I started to feel something inside me. Thus we met each other to have pleasure. When I captured about whole the matter, we used each other to have sex while having shower. I played with her regularly. When I was 13 years of age I had a first real orgasm. I like both older gentleman, also lady.

Really miss her now a days. She got married. Yes, sometimes I think back days, and still I feel her with me. She abused me, this is not as much heart full for as I still miss her. (She abused me, but my heart is not full of that since I still miss her).

Now I am thinking if someone comes to our home like her, and treat me as like her, it would be better. Ask me step by step.......
Now I m 32. Actually sometimes I miss her and feel her, thinking what we did before. That's why I am thinking like madly. This is not love I think, but she taught me everything in life. She really used to take care about me. Maybe that's why. No way I would do the same with a younger girl.

Does one know whether to be loved at that age ? May be... Obviously I got the point of having been abused when I grew up. But still, I think I miss her. My parents never came to know, no way...

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May 2024, woman aged 33 about masturbation

I’m 33 years of age, single, never married before. I have no boyfriend. So I don’t know what it is. I never had spontaneous orgasms.
My friend introduced me to masturbation, a girl around my age, when I was 30, fingering. Sometimes I watch porn, and I masturbate more than once a week. My prefered porn is hetero anal sex.

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